On The Nose: Contemplating My Goals & Word Of The Year For 2022

/ Ally Bean

Tigger under the Christmas tree. He has nothing specifically to do with this post but cute pink nose, eh?

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Bill at A Silly Place wrote a post, a challenge really, that got me thinking about what I’ll be doing next year. Thank you, Bill. You can read his post here and join his challenge if you so choose.

Consider yourself tagged.

Bill’s challenge is to forget about traditional formal New Year Resolutions, which I’ll admit have always seemed a bit overblown and idealistic to me.

Instead you commit to a few specific Goals that you monitor as the year goes along. It’s not as highbrow as declaring New Year Resolutions, but probably more doable because more pragmatic.

At least in my estimation.

While I usually shy away from anything that involves numbers, preferring to go with the wordy flow rather than mess with any dodgy numbers, I’m going to try this challenge because I am open-minded & curious.

My modest Goals are:

  • go for a walk five days a week;
  • cook four vegetarian meals each month;
  • donate three boxes of unwanted stuff to charity each month;
  • go on two vacations somewhere that is not here; and
  • read one book that is currently on our bookshelves each month.

But wait there’s more.  

In keeping with my longstanding habit of deciding on a Word of the Year, while I pursue these numerically-based Goals I’ll implement my 2022 Word of the Year. It is how I shall do these things.

My word is ENJOY.

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Do you make New Year Resolutions?

Do you think that setting Goals, as opposed to making New Year Resolutions, is an intriguing way to state your intentions?

Do you pick a Word of the Year?

Keeping my 2022 Word of the Year in mind, what do you think of the *Christmas* music video below?

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This will be my last post of 2021. Happy Holidays everyone. See you next year.

221 thoughts on “On The Nose: Contemplating My Goals & Word Of The Year For 2022”

  1. I make goals and I think they are different than resolutions. A goal has steps…a resolution is just out there. That being said, my goals are going to be exercising more, as I’ve gotten out of the habit, eating more fruits and veggies, and taking me picture a day

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  2. I’m not a New Year’s resolution person as I tend to just make decisions about changes as I need to or as they require; I would call them goals rather than resolutions (I agree with LA). Resolutions are rather unmanageable for most of us, I think. Cheers. 🙂

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    • Lynette, you said it. I’ve never been onboard with making NY Resolutions because too grandiose. I like picking a Word of the Year as a guiding principle to underpin my days, but specifying Goals is new for me. If I’m still blogging in a year I’ll let you know how it went for me being goal-oriented. 🤔

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  4. Thank you for the gift of a perfect video to share with my students today!

    And good luck with your goals. They seem SMART (a variety of goal with which educators have been beaten into the ground). While writing SMART goals is akin to small torture for me, I have to admit that they are likely to be far more useful than resolutions.

    Happy holidays to you!

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    • Rita, that video had me in stitches. Of course I’m a punctuation nerd. Wonder what your students will make of it?

      I don’t know that I’ve gone so far as to apply SMART to my goals, but I stated them here which for me is something new. Resolutions never worked for me, but a Word of the Year has. Maybe goals, too?

      Joyful holidays to you, too. 🎄

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  6. I make goals from time to time during the year, but generally nothing on January 1st. I like your somewhat numerical approach and I wish you success in achieving these goals. As for “Enjoy” – That’s a great word, especially when the world is trying to kill you.

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  7. The video is great! I really enjoyed it.

    I make goals rather than resolutions, and I don’t pick a word of the year. I like your word for 2022.
    I hope to lose 10 pounds, and walk/hike more, and work on going out by myself more to do photography. I’m not really into going out by myself I have a fear issues. I need to work on those!

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    • Deborah, I’m glad you liked the video. It’s a hoot. I’m pleased to know you’re a goal-maker. I feel like I’m onto something good with Bill’s idea. Funny I’ve never considered stating my goals before.

      As for being fearful when going out & about, I get that. Too many variables anymore, people are wacko and the weather is weird. I stay home more now, too.

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  8. I’ve never picked a word of the year. It seems somehow limiting to me. After all — what if I picked ‘cucumber’ and then found myself surrounded for months by watermelons?
    As for resolutions/goals, I usually pick something, but assume failure will be part of the deal. For example; one year I decided to read all of Shakespeare’s works. I still have the book, which makes a fine doorstop when I need one, and I don’t regret not making it through the whole thing. I still met several sonnets and plays I didn’t know, and enjoyed (!) meeting them at my own pace.

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    • Linda, that’s a fascinating take on the Word of the Year. I find it opens my mind to all sorts of ways of viewing my life, each situation therein. In reference to your example, I can’t help but think of the old saying: “don’t let the seeds stop you from enjoying the watermelon.” 😁

      Willy Shakes is a prolific author. Reading a few of his works during the year is great, especially when you found something new to you. I can imagine that his book makes an excellent doorstop, she says while eyeing her copy that is sitting on the shelf.

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    • Ellen D., I know what you mean about the two terms. I kind of think of them as being the same but a quick dictionary search showed me it’s all a matter of definitional nuance! We’ll see how my goal-oriented approach works. It could work, she says with hope in her heart. 😉

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  10. I always say that I am on a Journey Of Continuous Self-Improvement. Very Buddhist of me, I know.

    All of your goals seem quite doable, and that’s a good thing. Getting more Enjoyment out of life is good, too, especially if you find it in small ways. Being observant and noticing the little stuff along the way brings a great deal of Joy to me.

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    • Nance, you’re definitely rocking a Buddhist philosophy with your approach to your life. I like thinking that I’m continually improving, if not myself, then the world around me. Kind of Buddhist, kind of Presbyterian.

      I picked my goals in part because they seemed healthy, but also in part because they seem doable, not lofty. I shall ENJOY as much as I can while doing them.

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  11. I love your word of the year and I’m staring blankly at “donate three boxes each month.” That is an amazing goal. Holy moly! I feel like I should do something like that too, but it seems like a Big Goal.
    Happy holidays, Ally! See you on the flip!

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    • Nicole, we have lots of stuff in this house, much of it inherited. We’ve been the end of the line for so many things formerly owned by relatives. I’ve been slowly clearing it out for the last few years, so I may find that my goal is a bit lofty having given away carloads of stuff already. It could be that I’ll give a bag of canned food to the local food bank and call it one my boxes. We’ll see 🤔

      Happy Holidays to you and yours. Enjoy! 🎄

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  13. My word of the year reveals itself as the year progresses and I see an organic unfolding of an overarching theme. I get an AHA moment and go on! HA!
    The video is great – especially as it unintentionally shows how to try to unravel layers of intent in historical art, literature – and music. Classical musicians are always bombarded with pros and cons of playing period pieces (Bach, etc) in proper ‘performance practice’ techniques and staying true to the period…as a musical artist, there’s a balance in honoring that and then ‘making it your own’ via interpretation etc.
    All that to say, exploring placement of commas in this title piece adds depth to what was decided upon and ultimately originally intended.
    All that to say…ahem…HoHoHo Happy Holidays to you, Ms Bean. See ya in ’22!
    🙂

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    • Laura, I like knowing how your Word of the Year comes to you. I’ll admit that sometimes mine floats into my head out of nowhere, while other times I have to think it through to find one. 2022’s word came to me instantly, organically even.

      I get what you’re saying about playing classical music and will admit I’ve never before thought about the issues you raise. You’re right the video is an example of that kind of search for authenticity juxtaposed against modern language sensibilities.

      Happy Holidays to you and yours, too. Seize ‘ya later. 🎄

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    • L. Marie, I usually wing it with goals, too. I’m a free sprit after all, but this year I’m going to TRY to set some and follow through and do them. Uh huh.

      Rejuvenated is a wonderful Word of the Year. It embodies the best that can happen. I like it.

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  15. I don’t have goals or make make New Year Resolutions, but I think I might try that for 2022. I like the idea of going for a walk everyday. I try to do that anyway, but don’t always make it. I may come up with a real list. Thank you for the inspiration.
    Word for the year: Contentment.

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    • Robin, declaring specific Goals for the year is something new for me, too. I know I’m not good at Resolutions, but Goals might work for me. I figure, try it, see what happens. 🤷‍♀️

      Contentment is a brilliant Word of the Year. Nice choice.

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  17. I’ve written New Year’s Resolution since I was barely into my teens. I still have my first list from the 1950s. In recent years I’ve jumped on the one word bandwagon and still love that concept. It really helped me after my husband passed away to focus on ‘courage’ that first year. For a few years I used mantras: One being, “just show up” based on something Woody Allan used to say about success. Another year I used, “Hope, Health and Moving Forward.”

    I will work on the idea of setting five goals instead of resolutions but, really, I don’t see where’s much difference other than the label? What I think is the important take away from New Year’s Resolutions or setting goals is that we take the time to look where we’re at in life and where we want to be and what it will take to get us there. Whether we write them down or not isn’t the important part.

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    • Jean, how amazing that you have your NY Resolutions from as far back as the 1950s. I’m sure it’s fascinating to read, to see what was important to you then. I like the Word of the Year idea, too– and yours are good ones. I can understand how they helped you cope as you’ve adapted to what life has thrown your way.

      I agree that Resolutions and Goals are very similar words. It’s all about the nuance, if the dictionary is to be believed. So true that the real purpose of Resolutions or Goals is to take the time to assess where you are now, where you want to go next. Reflection and purpose, can’t go wrong while contemplating those ideas.

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  18. I lost all interest in your post once I started the video! My answer to all your queries though is no. My new motto is live each day as it comes…mostly, but definitely there will be no binding clauses or heartfelt restrictions, timelines, needs, or direction to my 2022. I suppose that might mean my word of the year could be frivolous??

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    • Deb, ha! I’m glad you liked the video. I don’t know when anything has struck my funny bone as much as it does. Is your Word of the Year, frivolous OR free?! Seems to me living each day as it comes is the ultimate example of freedom, not at all frivolous. 🙂

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  19. You are way more ambitious than I am. I have a daily goal of walking 10K steps. I almost always make that. It’s been two years now and I’m still walking. I’m also trying to be nicer to people although that is sometimes a challenge. 🙂

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    • Kate, I think 10,000 steps a day is ambitious. That’s VERY impressive. I’m not sure I could set a goal of being nicer to people. I’m pretty *forking* nice now and look where it’s gotten me? Snarling and more introverted than ever. 😒

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  20. I have not made a NY Resolution since school days when you were forced to wrote about them in English composition classes. I do like the idea of goals, but I don’t generally write them down. In 2019, I did have a goal of trying something new each week and I blogged about it. Some were as simple as trying a new food; others involved new places to walk/hike or other outings. It was fun and boy was I glad to have done that once 2020 hit!

    I appreciate all your goals, but donating that much per month would be a tough one, just because I tend to use most of what I own. I am dying to go on a real vacation again!!!! Fingers crossed, but I’m not making any plans as the last two were canceled.

    Wishing you a wonderful holiday! See you next year!

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    • Bijoux, I remember writing compositions about My Resolutions For The New Year. Who knows what I said! Enough to get a passing grade. I like your goal of trying something new each week. That’s inspired.

      We have a lot of stuff in this house that we inherited, stuff that we don’t need or want, but here it is. My goal is to move more of it out of basement, although I’ve been at this project for a while so whether I’ll find three boxes per month remains to be seen. Maybe small boxes! 😉

      If [when] we go on vacations they’ll be more spontaneous than planned, of that I’m sure. I’m not getting my hopes up only to have them dashed by another variant of Covid-19.

      Happy Holidays back at ‘ya.

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  21. Do you make New Year Resolutions? Sometimes. This blog was a NYR. I have a mini resolution planned for this year.

    Do you think that setting Goals, as opposed to making New Year Resolutions, is an intriguing way to state your intentions? Yes. I think that this would help break it down and make it more doable.

    Do you pick a Word of the Year? Not ususally. But a WOTY recentlhy happened to choose me for 2022.

    Keeping my 2022 Word of the Year in mind, what do you think of the *Christmas* music video below?
    Hilarious!

    Enjoy!

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    • Donna, that’s cool that your blog was a NY Resolution. Obviously you’re able to follow through on your Resolutions. Good job.

      Words of the Year are one of those situations wherein if it feels right you know you’ve found your focus. Mine just popped into my head and seems like the way to go for 2022.

      Glad you liked the video. The title got me laughing before I heard it. Had to watch it many times, to pick up the subtle nuances of course. 😉

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  23. I love your WOTY! We all need to do more of that. I don’t write resolutions either. I was thinking about monthly goals a little along the lines of yours, in the sense that they would be both desirable and doable. Now, let’s see if I actually follow through (one of my first would be to stop procrastinating 🙂 ).

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    • Janis, yes I agree that we all need more enjoyment in our lives, less angst + woe. As for writing New Year Goals, this is a first for me so I went with modest ones, easily kept track of. Baby steps, right?

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  24. That’s a much nicer way to look at it–goals give you something to shoot for, while resolutions are stern, unforgiving things.

    All your goals seem very reasonable. Except maybe divesting 2 boxes of stuff a month! If I did that, I would lose my Christmas decorations (and my husband would rejoice).

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  25. Frolicsome fellows? 😀 😀 Love it! Thanks for the video Ally, just the thing to get me a-chuckling.
    I’m not keen on New Year Resolutions as they tend to be rather stereotypical and not thought through. I do have goals, and have engaged a coach to work with me on achieving them, which I’m very much looking forward to. My word of the year is next on the to-do list funnily enough. A very Merry holiday period to you & Z-D. Looking forward to enjoying 2022 with you 🙂

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    • I knew you’d love that video, Deb. It’s one that made me laugh out loud with its clever wordplay, before you even get to that guy slapping himself in the face.

      You’re right about New Year Resolutions being stereotypical. I suppose that’s part of the reason I bristle at the term. Very impressive that you’ll have a coach to help you achieve your 2022 goals. I suddenly feel like a sluggard, but that’s ok. I’m comfortable with that.

      Happy Holidays to you and yours, too.

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      • You’ve no need for sluggish feelings at all (although I’m delighted to hear you’re comfortable with that thought – more of us need to embrace that mode). It’s because my goals are business-related – I’ve a big transition I need help with, and I’m really pleased to have found someone who feels like a good fit.

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        • That is so cool and fortuitous. My goals are hardly the sort to require outside help, but I like them anyway. Wishing you all the best with your new business-oriented goals. They sound intriguing, btw.

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  26. Hey there, Ally. I like your word of the year. I am actively searching for mine now. Commas throw me off too. Less is better I’ve heard. That song is pretty funny. I’m sure you remember that I make vision cards each year which help me with my goals. I am getting ready to make a new set. Hope you and ZD have a wonderful Christmas. See you next year!

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    • Janet, I too have heard that said about commas. When I was in college they were very popular, but now not so much. I don’t know if I use too many or not enough, but I can tell you I’m not going to worry about it. 🙄

      I remember your vision cards, which are lovely. Goals made pretty! Enjoy your holidays. 🎄

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  27. I love your word of the year, Ally. W should all remember to appreciate and cultivate “enjoy”. I am not a resolutions person either, and avoid numbers whenever possible, except when keeping tabs on my running mileage for the year.

    I was not going to select a word of the year this year, but one selected me: community. I feel the need to promote “community”. I don’t know how but I think it’s important. We seem to have lost the sense of shared responsibility, shared goals, and shared time and that is sad. Rant over! Merry Christmas, my friend!

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    • Laurie, keeping track of your running mileage is a great thing to do. I’m sure it’s impressive by the end of the year. My modest goal is merely to go for more walks, the length of which makes no difference.

      I like your Word of the Year. It seems timely and perfect to me, too. I’ll look forward to seeing how you implement it in your real life. And in blogland? [Hint to come back]

      Merry Christmas and Happy New Year to you and yours. ⭐️

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    • Marian, you are a kind friend to let me jump ahead to 2022. I felt that considering this is my last post of the year, I needed to alert the world as to my intention for next year.

      Merry Christmas & a Very Happy New Year to you and yours. 🎄

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  29. Hmm, I don’t really do resolutions. I suppose at the beginning of each year I try to be more committed to house cleaning, but that doesn’t last. I like the idea of goals. After a night with very little sleep, thanks to a college application panic fest by Mini, I will have to decide on some goals at a later time when my mind is rested. Your word is a great choice. That video was very funny.

    Merry everything to you and yours. Have a relaxing break.

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    • Ernie, the idea of goals appealed to me and I decided that these particular ones would be just the right amount of challenge to do. I didn’t spend much time on them, went with my gut. Glad you liked the video. I think it’s a hoot.

      Merry & Happy to you and yours.

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  30. I enjoyed your post. See what I did there? 😉
    I like the idea of setting goals this time of year. It feels like a new beginning, and after the last year and a half, we can use all the new beginnings we can get.
    I don’t usually pick a word of the year, but I’ve been seeing the word “nourish” pop up here and there over the last few weeks, so that is what I am going with for 2022.

    I really like your list of goals. They are both practical and inspirational. I’m thinking of borrowing some of them to use in my daily life as well. 🙂

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  31. Resolutions *sigh*. Being an avid list maker the idea appeals to me but then I go overboard and fail spectacularly. Goals seems like a smaller route. I’ve never done a word for the year but I must admit I really like your word. Enjoy, I think, will encourage you to face your goals with the intention of enjoying them and will also serve as a reminder to look around you everyday to seek out something that will give you enjoyment.
    I hope you and your family have a very Merry Christmas!

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    • Gigi, I like lists, too. Resolutions seem formal whereas Goals seem friendly. I’ve never tried anything like this before, committing to goals for a year, but why not?

      I started doing Word of the Year about 10 years ago and find that having one is a good way to feel focused on possibility. I try to find how my word fits into any situation I find myself in.

      Merry Christmas and Happy New Year to you and yours. 🎅🏻

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  32. Enjoy is a great word for the coming year, Ally! Keep it positive! (eek – not Covid positive that is – that’s where the word, ‘positive,’ is negative!) – See what showing me a video like that has done to me! Lol.
    As for NY resolutions – they seem like bullet journals, starting out well-intentioned, we keep it up for a few months, and then it drops off substantially as it requires more effort to keep it going. I like the periodic review of goals better. Although, I wish you luck in throwing out 3 boxes of unwanted items every month – unless they are very small boxes.
    ENJOY the festive season! See you next year!

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    • Amanda, my Word of the Year just came to me the other day. I feel like I could/should enjoy more. Made me smile with your analysis of the positive.

      I’ve never done a bullet journal, but I get what you mean. From the ones I’ve seen on IG they must require effort, more than anticipated. As for three boxes to a charity, we’ve inherited a lot of stuff [you have no idea], which while in good shape, is not for us. So on it goes this year.

      Merry & Happy to you and yours. 🎄

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    • Stuart, we do have a lot of stuff. We’ve inherited most of it and it’s time to let it go. It’s wonderful to be able to keep family memories alive, but keeping family stuff around is a different story.

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  34. I love your goals because they’re realistic while so many aren’t. I haven’t set any nor do I usually; I try to be as active as possible every day. Lately that hasn’t always been possible. I was filling my garbage can every week with garage junk of my late husband’s but haven’t been able to do that with the kids here. Granny Nannying takes up a lot of time!

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    • Margaret, I’m not one for Resolutions so I’m thinking a list of Goals will be more my speed. I decided on small goals, doable, and personal– rather than any that require someone else’s involvement to make them happen. I can imagine that your life is upside-down now, but you’re loving it, right?

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  35. Enjoy is a GREAT word for the year. It’s something I need to work on as well. I haven’t thought much about my goals for the new year yet, but there’s time yet.

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    • Akilah, the word ‘enjoy’ just floated into my consciousness and it seemed positive. I could use more enjoyment in my life, we all could I reckon. I set my 2022 goals early because I was thinking about them after Bill tagged me for this challenge, so why not write about them now.

      Happy Holidays to you and yours. 🎄

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  36. I’m not into resolutions at New Years, but finding my productivity being a bit on the lax side, I did institute a list of goals last year and now for 2022. Last year’s list was a bit too much. Well, I’ve already checked off one of 2022’s goals: finding a publisher for my book. So, I’m off and running (or off the hook?😉).

    As for that video, I loved the clever lyrics, but did worry the percussionist might be seriously hurting himself with all that chest thumping!!

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  37. I don’t make resolutions. Quit that decades ago. I like your idea of goals, though. About 22 years ago I intended to walk five days a week. It worked, and I added a day. John and I set our alarms to walk six days a week and skip only for rain, ice, and doctor’s appointments.

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    • Anne, your walking plan makes good sense. I hope to get into the habit of walking regularly, instead of my usual whenever approach to it. I’m glad you give yourself permission to skip walks when need be. I’m going to adopt your guidelines.

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      • If I didn’t walk first thing in the morning, I wouldn’t walk at all. I’ve always admired people who walk after lunch or dinner, which seems to be better for the body. Good luck with your walking. Are you likely to use the same route every day, our will you vary it?

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    • Susie, I’ve picked a Word of the Year for years, but Resolutions not so much. This idea to state Goals is new for me, but makes sense– and I shall enjoy doing them. Merry Christmas to you too.

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  39. I liked the video, although I winced for the poor concussionist. Very cute! Men can do a lot with their facial hair.

    Enjoy is a good word. I’ve done New Years resolutions various times. I don’t find it very satisfying or satisfactory. I do go over my plans and goals for the next day before bed most night, though. That works better for me.

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    • Nicki, the video made me laugh out loud so I knew I had to share it here. What else is a blog for if not to share the treasures I find online?

      I’ve never been successful making Resolutions, but Goals I can go with. Or at least I hope I can. I like your idea of reviewing your goals on a regular basis. I can see how that’d help you achieve them. Smart thinking.

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    • Betsy, I couldn’t stop laughing when I saw the video. So clever. We’ve inherited a lot of stuff over the years and it’s time to move it along + if I have no more stuff I’ll give bags of canned food to the local food bank. I’ve never had any luck with Resolutions so maybe I’ll do better with Goals. 🤷‍♀️

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      • Goals over Resolutions sounds like a win to me. And, if you keep your BBs posted on your progress, you’re more likely to feel our virtual peer pressure to make it happen! 😛

        Getting rid of stuff in your house is almost cathartic. It feels great, so I’m with you on that! And donating food is a wonderful idea. I look forward to your continued journey with this, AB!

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  42. Goals sound a much better idea than resolutions (which tend to jay engender guilt at their lack of fulfilment).

    Your goals sound admirable and achievable Ally, keep us updated on how you get on.

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  43. Love that pink nose! Do you have an Eeyore, too? You will definitely *enjoy* your year if you meet all those goals. I never make New Year resolutions and am not good at setting goals, or making things happen, mostly I let my life unfold and try to go with the flow. I used to pick a word for the year until it seemed to be jinxing me so I stopped after 2013 (if I remember correctly). The word was patience and then my patience became very sorely tried. I think the *Christmas* music video is very amusing. 🙂

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    • Barbara, I loved that photo of Tigger’s nose. I had to use it here on the blog, HAD TO! I don’t have Eeyore, but I do have Pooh. He’s under our tree with Tigger, but he doesn’t photograph as well.

      I usually go with the flow, but this year I’m going to try making Goals. I never make Resolutions. I get what you’re saying about a Word of the Year, and I’ve wondered about it too. Is the Universe laughing at my gumption when I dedicate myself to one– OR is the Universe on my side supporting me as I go along? Rhetorical question, who’s to say.

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  44. I set daily, weekly, monthly goals all the time. There always manages to be something that causes a derailment of sorts but I never stop trying to make a turnaround. As I told someone else, one foot is always sinking in quicksand while the other is firmly planted on the ground, the only goal I have is to finally have enough gumption to keep both feet planted and moving forward. Great post. “Enjoy is quite positive” and your video choice brightened my gloomy rainy morning.

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  47. I’ve never made NY Resolutions. I do like the idea of goals though and yours are positive and I think obtainable. Right? I have a feeling you will nail them all.
    I really should be reading more than I do, it’s something I always enjoyed but somehow got out of the habit.

    ENJOY! Now that is a great word for the coming year, I think I’ll piggyback on that one for myself.

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    • Suz, I’m trying this Goal approach to 2022 because it makes sense to me– and I feel like I’m in a good headspace to make them happen. I want to read more, too– but blogging takes most of my reading time anymore. I can only process so many words in a day.

      Please feel free to ENJOY 2022 along with me, with all of us. After 2020 and 2021, I think we all deserve a great year of enjoyment. Happy Holidays to you and yours.

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  48. I like your 5-4-3-2-1 spin on the goals, very clever. I have a goal in mind for this upcoming year, perhaps I will try something like you did…I will marinade on it for a few days.

    I am most hopeful for your 2 vacations goal. That sounds wonderful. We went on 2 vacations this year, and they were both lovely, and sad in their own ways. Vacation 1 we scattered my father’s ashes, though he has been gone for 4 years now. It was wonderful to see family, but of course, still sad. Vacation 2 we went to Hawaii, which was beautiful, but my husband’s sister had very recently died after a very short illness, and my husband has been having a hard time of it, as anyone would. I hope your 2022 vacations are full of the enjoyment and none of the sadness. Actually, I hope MY 2022 vacation(s) are similarly enjoyable.

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    • J, I figured that even with my addled brain I could remember 5 Goals when listed in a numerical way like these. I look forward to learning what your Goals are if you decide to share them in your blog.

      I’d like to go on the 2 vacays, but without any sadness attached to them like yours were. My condolences in both your situations. Because of Omicron I imagine our vacations will be spontaneous + short rather than elaborate planned ones. And that’ll be okay by me.

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  49. I ENJOYED reading your list! (I am sometimes a number addict and take stats one day at a time) but must admit to joining you with the word ENJOY! I have quit making official resolutions in recent years but will cheerlead anyone who shakes things up a bit in the New Year.

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  51. I like your goals. They seem stretchy but reasonable. I like that in a goal.

    Some years I make resolutions, some years I pick a word. Some both, some neither. I don’t really have a word calling out to me this but I have a few things rolling around in my brain that I’d like to do in 2022.

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    • Katie, thank you. I picked my Goals with the idea that they’re doable by me without any need to bother anyone else. It’s when you give your power away to other people that I find myself stuck. I’ve learned that words often find me. If nothing else the end of year gets all of us thinking about what comes next and that seems positive to me.

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  52. Oh, I love your word for the year! So great! I did a word of the year for the first time in 2021 and I am not sure how/if it served me? Or how/if I served it? Food for thought. I suppose I should be pondering a word for 2022.
    Your goals all sound excellent: achievable and satisfying. Good luck!

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    • Suzanne, I know what you mean about the Word of the Year idea. I’m not sure what it does exactly but it does make me feel like I’m attempting to improve myself and that makes me happy. I keep picking one with the hope that it’s doing some good. About the Goals, we’ll see, won’t we? Happy Holidays to you and yours. 🎄

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    • Natalie, thanks. I wrote these goals using descending numbers because I figured that’d be the easiest way for me to remember them all year long. Happy Holidays to you, too. 🎄

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  54. The video was funny and different. I do set goals Ally, but don’t always follow through with them. I do know I bought books to read for Winter 20-21 and never read them. I bought a few more for this Winter and, as we are knocking on Winter’s doorstep, I promised myself to read all those books before Spring arrives. I have to step away from blogging more because it consumes any allotted reading time. I was watching “Mad Men” on Amazon Prime and faithfully set aside two hours a week to watch it. But the series ended and I’ve not gotten into any other shows – I must divide my “pie of time” differently. The only resolution for 2021 was to cut my blog posts to twice a week except for special holiday posts and I followed through on that, so yay me … one goal done. I need to tame clutter, but will save that gargantuan task for retirement. Have a wonderful holiday season and catch you in the new year.

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    • Linda, I understand about how blogging cuts into book reading. I find the same thing. I try to be attentive to everyone who comments here, and then read blogs I follow, then write something for here… and THEN I read books. I/we have stacks of books around here and I hope to get cracking on them first, before I buy more.

      Merry Christmas and Happy New Year to you. They say it’s the most wonderful time of the year. We shall see, won’t we? 🎅🏻

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  57. Nope, no resolutions for me. At least not anything official, though I always have some ideas in mind (e.g., “read more books” or “bake a pie”).

    The last time I chose a word of the year was 2020. I picked “leisure.” And then COVID happened and I ended up with way too much leisure for my own good.

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  58. Resolutions. Wow. I’ve not made any resolutions in decades. In my humble opinion, NYR’s are made to be broken. Living off-grid, we live day to day and thank the Maker for each one we wake to. We ask him to help us have a productive day.. Think “God’s Country” by Blake Shelton. That said, goals are set year-round and planned accordingly.

    You have set some great goals for yourself. The best way to keep on track is daily reaffirmation of said goals. Im sure you have a good source of support from your husband. Only you and your Maker knows what you’re capable of. 🙂🖖

    As said in Klingon, Qapla’! (Success!)

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    • Ha! I agree about Resolutions. In my experience they seem to be more about setting you up for defeat than guiding you to a better tomorrow. I’ll stick with my Word of the Year and my newfound Goals approach to self-improvement. I’ve no doubt my husband will support me with my goals, especially the one about food and the one about vacations. The boy likes both of those things, don’t you know!

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  60. I typically do set new years intentions… But as I’ve aged, I’ve tried to keep these intentions flexible and broad. This coming year I’d like to get back into fitness at any manageable level that can be maintained… I would also like to get back into reading… I love it and don’t do it enough… I like your goal of reading a book off your shelf once a month.. I tend to collect books and don’t read them (I borrow the next anticipated release from the library)!

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    • bosssybabe, intentions are good, even if you don’t always follow thru. Knowing that you need to change is what yearend reflection is about. I’m like you, I get the books, then put them on a shelf figuring I’ll read them soon, but often I don’t. Not next year. Back to reading for me. 🤓

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  61. Love your goals and your word (and this post). I’m flexible on goals. Some years they’re more concrete. Some years I go month by month. Or start something in February. I do choose a word. But hadn’t yet. You’ve got me thinking, Ally!

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    • Crystal, I’ve never tried announcing goals that are based on specific numbers. I’m more wordy than number-y. HOWEVER I’ll do my best. I often think of March 1st as the beginning of the year, somehow that makes more sense to me than January 1st. Looking forward to your Word of the Year. Glad the video will be of use to you. It’s a hoot.

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  62. Hello Ally and happy holidays! I used to set New Year’s Resolutions with varying degrees of success, but gave that practice up probably five or six years ago. More recently, I’ve tried choosing a word for the year, or setting an intention. Those are backed up either by seasonal bucket lists or monthly goals. I like the idea of using the beginning of a new year as a time for reflection and planning, but I’m flexible about how I go about it. Enjoy your holidays and I’ll see you next year!

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    • Christie, I never did well with Resolutions so I understand why you stopped with them. I’ve done well with a Word of the Year. I’m a free spirit, but am hoping that Goals, as announced here, will keep my on the right track. I know you’re very good at achieving your monthly goals.

      Merry Christmas and Happy New Year to you! 🎅🏻

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  63. I guess I’ve taken a goal-approach to NYRs, in that, if I fail once the games not over. I’m going to continue working on being more festive. I love your #3. That’s would be a huge goal at this house (hard and needed at this house). You’ve inspired me to think of a word-of-the-year.

    Thanks for the video! I’m off to share it with the office now.

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    • Annie, when I did Resolutions I had an all or nothing mindset so, of course, they didn’t work for me. But this idea of Goals resonated with me, so for this coming year I’m going to try, especially #3. 🙄

      I do well with a Word of a Year, hope you think of one that calls to you. The video is a delight. I start smiling just thinking of it.

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  64. I like your list. I had and usually post about my annual Bucket List, but skipped last year due to the pandemic, as I figured most of them wouldn’t get done. Happy Holidays Ally!

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  65. Hi ally bean!
    I like how tigger (and that fun nose) syncs with the video to bookmark the post.
    I like your idea of reading one book a month from the existing bookshelf – and the other ideas sound great – and do you really have enough extra stuff to get rid of three bags a month? Well
    Right on!
    And I don’t make resolutions but I it sure is fun to think about next year this time.
    😉
    It reminds me how fast the years fly by-
    So we should savor more during the good
    Times and be encouraged during the trials because they will pass
    –

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    • Yvette, I wondered if anyone would get the “on the nose” reference! I was feeling like a clever wordsmith when I wrote it. 😉

      We have so many books around here and I intend on reading more of them instead of buying new titles willy nilly like I have been. I see you understand the logic behind #3 now.

      I agree about the importance of reflecting on what has been, what will be. I like your idea of savor [enjoy?] the good, be encouraged during the bad. Balance, aiming for it I am.

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      • Hi ally – well it is not my original idea – and I will be back to mention where I got it from –
        and I love when you slip in little wordsmith nuggets for readers –
        –
        also, savoring is a positive psychology term that is worth checking out – I did a presentation on it about a year ago and will see if I have any notes – but it is a cool concept –

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        • Positive psychology has a nice ring to it. I am aware of *savor* when talking about food or drink, but not as a way of approaching your life– although I can make some decent assumptions about how to do it. 😊

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          • Well I think positive psychology should be called strengths-based psych – and many associate it with happiness / partly because the founder of this movement (Martin Seligman) helped catapult things with his book “authentic -happiness” but a decade later wrote “flourish” and talked about the semantics as well as happiness is too ambiguous (means different things to different people) and also based on “happenings”
            So they get away from certain words and the whole idea of positivity can be so trite or shallow and so I think it cuts the area short.
            In addition / positive psych actually has roots in Humanistic psychology (dating back to the 40s and grew as a response to the doom and Deterministic tenets of Freud and psychoanalysis – so humanistic psychology (like Maslow needs) is about growth and flourishing and not having deficiencies in order to grow and self actualize. Okay – enough Of that
            –
            Here is a link to read a little about savoring
            https://positivepsychologynews.com/image-maps/positive-emotions/savoring

            “savoring involves noticing and appreciating the positive aspects of life – the positive counterpart to coping. Savoring is more than pleasure – it also involves mindfulness and “conscious attention to the experience of pleasure” (p. 5). You can savor vicariously, enjoying another person’s pleasure.”

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            • I like that definition of *savor* and hope I do that as I go along. Probably do most of the time being inclined to notice things, remember the good. I agree that “positivity can be so trite or shallow” to a point that it means nothing yet people try to knock you over the head with it! Thanks for the info and the link. The more you know, the farther you’ll go… as they say. 🤓

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              • Hahah
                Liked the “knock you over the head” with it
                –
                And research has supported that savoring can improve wellness and lift the mood.
                I don’t have The name off hand – but when I did the mini presentation – I provided an example of a man who had a terminal illness – he did some mountain climbing and while there – paused to soak up the moment and took a mental image –
                Along with some photos
                – then back home he would see a photo from the trip and then close his eyes and mentally recall the experience – connecting to mental notes he took during an intentional pause – and that allowed him so savor the past experience for continued joy.
                He imagined the crops fresh air – the vast open sky and terrain around him.
                –
                I guess it connects to bringing everyone thought captive and then intentionally focusing on a rig past experience (episodic memory) and savoring it for a moment to still benefit
                Well I have tried it a few times and I am still exploring
                I think we both know that what works for one person might not work for another or might be helpful at a later season
                We humans sure are similar yet different
                And cheers to your “ENJOY” word for 2022
                Good things are in store

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  67. I think, given that I just wrote about focus on my own blog, and then got distracted about three times on my way to completing this comment, I think I’ll need the word FOCUS to be my word for 2022. 🙂
    That will be goal enough for me. Love the Tigger picture!

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  68. I like your resolutions, and I could actually keep them which is always good. Regarding the 12 books, well, I just updated a library list I keep, and I read 103 books in the last nine months. I can’t decide if that is good, bad, or just an indicator of my boring life. 🙂 If you’re wondering why in the world I keep a list, it is because when you read this much it helps when you are looking for a book so you don’t pickup or download something you’ve already read. Again, boring. 🙂 Yes, I refollowed you again for the third time, maybe this one will be the charm.

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    • Judy, I’m hoping I’ll be able to do my modest Goals because they are… modest. Nothing highfalutin about them.

      I plan to read other books than the 12 on the shelves, probably ones that I’ll buy as the year goes on. HOWEVER I’ll never read as many books as you have. You are amazing. I can understand why you keep a list, but how can you get your eyes to focus on words for that long?!! Very impressive.

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  69. I don’t really list resolutions per se, but I will put together a list of 100 things to do during the year. With Covid, that hasn’t been as easy or fun, as the last time I did this, I had to cancel over half of the list. Im really not interested in reading 50 books and completing 50 puzzles. lol. Your list is SMART – Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Relevant, and Time bound – well done. Happy Holidays lady!!

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  71. After I get back from this trip to England (assuming I survive this trip), my only goal is to avoid the news for a while. My real goal of resting up for two weeks on a tropical island is just a pipe dream (and I wouldn’t survive the travel planning needed to make it happen). I admire your number-centric goals. Kinda fun!

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    • The Travel Architect, I hear ‘ya. I’m with you about avoiding the news. It’s too much with us anymore. I also would like to go to a tropical island, Kauai for example. However that isn’t happening anytime soon, so I’ll focus on my Goals.

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  72. You’re early thinking about new year – by the way -all the best for 2022 – wow, you can come up with 3-4 boxes of unwanted stuff per month?? I guess I’m more of a “let’s keep it, maybe I still need it!

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    • Emille, good wishes to you, too, for 2022. We inherited a lot of stuff + I’m just tired of keeping some things around, so I’m guessing I’ll have 3 boxes worth of items to give to charity. And if I don’t… so goes it. 🤷‍♀️

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      • You inherited? That was a possibility I had not considered yet, since I was already living on this side of the pond when my parents died in Europe. Yeah, by all means – the less clutter the better, eh?

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  73. If people are making resolutions, I think it would be helpful to remember the SMART goal framework, where your resolutions/goals should be Specific, Measurable, Actionable, Realistic, and Time-Constrained.

    I’ve found that making these types of goals has been a key difference in whether or not I achieve the goal, both in life and school context 🙂

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  74. 36 boxes to donate…I do have some wine boxes that I’m planning on parting with. They served their purpose for my enjoyment over the 2021 seasons. I could send them your way for you to use for your goal of the parting of ways with items. They’re a delightful, easy-to-carry size. Sturdy too. I did enjoy the wine. So you have 12 books on a shelf that you have never read, or will you re-read them? I’m one of the re-reader types. I have 12 books that I purchased this year and received as gifts that need to be read. I’ve officially committed to joining you with the goal of reading one of those per month. That song is delightful!

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    • Shelley, when we had wine delivered during the early months of the pandemic it came in those boxes. You are right they are sturdy and easy to carry. Some of the boxes are still in the basement so you know what I’ll be doing with them.

      As for the books, I’m talking about reading new-to-me books that are here, but got pushed aside. It’s easy to buy new books but I’m determined to read what’s here– well some of them. Twelve to be exact. 😉

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    • candidkay, well now that’s trippy! Not that two people have picked the word ENJOY, but that you’d find out about it within a few hours. I like bloom for your Word of the Year. It’ll make for a good touchstone. Happy New Year to you, too. 🥂

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  77. I love the idea of the “word of the year”, and doubly so when it’s “enjoy”! 🙂

    I recently started to read a book called “Good Habits, Bad Habits”, written by a social psychologist. In it, she explains that a significant (over 40%!) of what we do is out of habit. Mostly unconsciously, without costing us mental energy. Establishing good habits is clearly important, can’t wait to hear about your progress through the year!

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  78. Oh my gosh! the song is hilarious!!!! especially for those of us obsessed with punctuation (or at least, misplaced ones)

    I love your word for 2022: ENJOY ENJOY ENJOY!!!!

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  79. Enjoy. In other word(s), live in JOY. YES. Wonderful word. May I borrow it/steal it/recycle it for my word also?
    I like your numerical list. It’s inspiring me. No, I don’t make resolutions, because I resolve every day to write more, read more, exercise more, hug more, love more, and BE more. So, there you go, for 2022. HAPPINESS to you. ❤

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  81. I loved the last comma placement. “God, give it a rest, overly merry gentlemen!” I’ve been making monthly goals while on a “weight loss journey” and will continue to do so. Didn’t make December’s goal, which was to NOT GAIN, but that’s OK, I enjoyed many many cookies. Now on to January.

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    • Anna, I thought that video was delightful, but tend to agree with you… overly merry gentlemen, indeed. Good that you’re flexible about your goals. Weight loss is tricky, especially around this time of year. Happy New Year! 🥂

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  83. Sorry, I never got around to commenting. I wanted to tell you that I agree with you on your anti-resolution stance. I think the typical resolution is a set-up for failure. Changing it to a goal seems to make it more realistic and attainable. I have always liked your word of the year idea though I am not creative enough to come up with one!

    Happy New Year!

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    • Zazzy, I can’t bring myself to resolve, it sounds too ridiculous to me. However, I can set goals that sound doable to me. I suppose it’s semantics, but that’s how I roll.

      Happy New Year to you, too. 🥂

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