The Stuff & Things Of Life

This year my desk calendar displays a vintage ad above each monthly grid.  January’s ad is for a Big Ben alarm clock.  The style of the ad is mid-century and the vibe of the ad is cheerful.  I smile when I look at it.

Unlike the nature photo calendars that I’ve had in the past, this one inspires me in a more creative way.  Suddenly I want to paint something– or bake something– or color something, even.  Funny how the imagery on something can influence me in such a way, but it does.

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I’ve always been fascinated by what objects people put around themselves.  I enjoy knowing what stuff a person finds important enough to keep on his or her desk– or on his or her kitchen counter– or in his or her magazine rack.  The little things that make someone smile.  Or be productive.  Or feel safe.

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I stumbled on this article about abandoned suitcases that were found in an old insane asylum.  It’s an interesting read.  The photos of the contents of the suitcases are amazing.  Plus there is documentation to explain who owned the suitcases– and why he or she was institutionalized.

There’s no way of knowing who put the objects into each suitcase.  It might have been the patient or it might have been the person who institutionalized the patient.  Or, I suppose, it might have been the nurse or doctor who came to escort the patient to the asylum.

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Looking around my home office I see the details that make it mine.  Like the calendar that inspires me.  Like the colorful Le Creuset mug that keeps my coffee handy.  Like the books in the old wooden bookcase that ground me.  And I wonder, what would I take with me if I knew I was going to an insane asylum… probably for the rest of my life.

Impossible to know the answer to such a hypothetical question.  Yet interesting to ponder.  On a Saturday morning.

In The Garden On A Mild Winter’s Day

Yesterday afternoon we had a few hours of weak sunshine.  I went outside for a walk around the house and was pleased with what I saw.  Instead of the usual winter grays and tans, I saw some pops of color. 

{Red: Holly Berries}

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{Orange: Dried Sedum}

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{Yellow: Dwarf Grasses}

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{Green: Creeping Thyme}

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{Blue: Afternoon Sky}

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{Brown: Dried Leaves}

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Around here winter is best known for its gloom, but seeing a bit of color in the garden yesterday made me forget that fact.  Instead, I was treated to a preview of what spring has to offer.  Warmth + hope + cheeriness.  

Sometimes The Boring Answer Is The Best One

I saw an acquaintance the other day.  She is a serious woman who is businesslike– with her eye on the prize at all times.  Not quite like me, in other words.

We stopped to talk for a while.  She told me about what was going on in her life.  And then asked me what was new with me.

What I wanted to tell her was that…

I’d just bought on sale at Kohl’s a new multi-color beaded necklace with a turquoise pendant on it…

that I had put on my concrete flying pig– known as Girlfriend Pig…

who stands on an antique fern stand/bookcase in the corner of our living room…

where she contributes positive energy to the room…

which, according to feng shui principles, is the bagua of our home concerned with helpful people & safe travel…

so, OBVIOUSLY, things were going pretty darned well for me.

However, I didn’t tell my acquaintance my first thought.  I knew that  Girlfriend Pig’s new jewelry and my subsequent good energy flow would be JUST. TOO. MUCH. for my acquaintance.

So instead I told her about our latest home decorating project– hanging mirrors, new & old, around the house.  This, I realized, was a topic that she could latch onto and appreciate.  Very literal and whimsy-free.

But nowhere near as interesting as flying pigs and discount baubles, imho.

What Do You Value Right Now?

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I.  While researching the concept of “values” I found this Checklist for Personal Values.  The checklist intrigued me so I did what the author suggested and picked the 10 values that mean the most to me [in alpha order].  Then I chose which 5 values were most important to me [in bold].

  1. change & variety
  2. economic security
  3. effectiveness
  4. freedom
  5. friendships
  6. good health
  7. inner harmony
  8. nature
  9. respect
  10. wisdom

II.  I then ranked these 5 values in order of importance to me until I had the following list.

  1. good health
  2. inner harmony
  3. economic security
  4. change & variety
  5. respect 

III.  Then I sat here and thought about what I’d learned about who I am today.  I realized that:

  • I no longer care as much about being right as I once did.  Whatever, people.
  • I no longer care at all about status.  If I ever did.
  • I no longer believe in as many abstract principles as I did when I was younger.  What is, is.

IV.  I did this simple little exercise in self-awareness just to see what would evolve from it.  I don’t know that these results surprise me as much as they confirm what I already suspected about my middle-aged self.  Which is that I’m pragmatic, well-balanced & curious as ever.

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If you enjoy learning a little bit about what makes you tick and you have the time [5 minutes max], give this exercise a go.  It was rather fun, I thought.