Love Many, Trust Few: 7 Random Things To Tell You On A Tuesday In May

/ Ally Bean

As they say: Love many, Trust few, Always paddle your own canoe

1 – I am vexed. I was a fan of Tetris when it first came out, became pretty darned good at it on my Game Boy, so when I stumbled over 368 Chickens I was enthusiastic. But this free little online game is impossible to win and I resent this. I keep trying to get to the goal, zero chickens, but consistently fail. Apparently this game, like many things in life, is designed to frustrate more than empower.

2 – I am laughing. I’ve wondered about the origins of Pantone, the company that decides which colors are THE ones we’ll be seeing and wearing everywhere during a year. Here’s an infographic explaining the company’s history plus adds a few suggestions for *revised* color names. For example, I adore a shade of blue renamed from Classic Blue to Postman’s Trouser. A better name, yes?

3 – I am unsettled. I used BookRaid AI’s Title Generator, followed by their Pen Name Generator, then their Book Plot Generator to see what artificial intelligence would tell me about writing a fiction book. The experience was unnerving because the suggestions were almost instantaneous, the ideas weren’t bad, and the plot was believable enough.

Thus a head’s up: if you see Violet Whitley’s children’s book called Paws and Claws: Unraveling the Mystery of the Wall Destroyer, A Story about Mittens and Whiskers, Feline Detectives, you’ll know it was *written* by me.

4 – I am excited. On my radar is the May 8th return of the TV series, Poker Face. Starring Natasha Lyonne as detective Charlie Cale this show’s first season was wonderful and that’s no bull shit. It’s well-paced, quirky, and off-the-wall in a good way, just the kind of entertainment to keep me upbeat.

5 – I am nerdy. I find typography interesting and enjoy punctuation so when Zen-Den saw a copy of AN ADMIRABLE POINT, A Brief History of the Exclamation Point! he bought it for me.  [Thank you Zen-Den.] The book describes itself as reclaiming “the exclamation point from its much-maligned place at the bottom of the punctuation hierarchy.”  Reading along in this witty little book I have to admit that I’m now a recovering punctuation snob who will henceforth adopt a more respectful attitude toward exclamation points!!!

6 – I am amused. According to the results of an online survey sometimes grandparents do not like their grandchildren’s names feeling the names are “ugly, old-fashioned, weird.” This can be problematic. The top hated names are Aurora, Charlotte, Elijah, Finn, Jack, Lindsay, Noah, Sally, and Tabitha.

For what it’s worth as a child-free woman I like those names and have never taken issue with my friends’ kids’ names. Although I have wondered [quietly to myself] about unusual spellings of names: a Candace spelled Candyce OR a Dana spelled Dhana. Seems like you’re burdening your child with a lifetime of correcting everyone about how to spell their first name.

7 – I am contemplative. Years ago, as an adjunct to determining what I am grateful for at the end of each day, I began answering the question: what have I learned today? I ask myself this question every night, sometimes surprised by my answers. I do this because I find that framing my life as an ongoing learning experience prompts me to keep engaged in life itself.

QUESTIONS OF THE DAY

Have you ever played Tetris? Have you watched Poker Face? How do you goof off in your free time?

Do you believe, like I do, that the naming of colors is a career you were meant for but never found?

Does the mere existence of AI make you mutter and start to get twitchy?

Thinking about children’s names, have you ever disliked a child’s name so much that you voiced an opinion about it? How did that work out for ‘ya?

What have you learned today?

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246 thoughts on “Love Many, Trust Few: 7 Random Things To Tell You On A Tuesday In May”

  1. Hehe- Postman’s trousers – what a hoot of a name!
    I used the pen name generator once to come up with pen name for my professional writing. Felicia Valdez was one option. Fern Booth another..I think you can imagine why I didn’t use those suggestions!
    Violet Whitley sounds very British teacup mystery- like!!
    I loved Tetris but I don’t play games anymore. I have no time. I became disenchanted when I played Scrabble online with people from around the world. It was fun to begin with and I rose up the rankings. Then it happen that I would play a game and be declared the winner, only to have the opponent (of dubious moral character) use a ‘cheat’ to be declared the winner over me despite the game having ended with me the winner!!!! After that, I never played it again.
    I love that you are championing exclamation points!!!!!. I love to use them, but they are banned in professional writing circles here. More is the pity. They say so much. Too many is never enough. Go Ally!!!!!!!

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    • Amanda, I thought that name for a color was perfect, instantly understandable.

      I had more names to choose from but liked Violet Whitley best. Seemed like she’d be a charming storyteller. Your pen name suggestions don’t seem like they’d be you.

      I’ve never played Scrabble online and find your experiences a cautionary tale. Why would anyone care enough to cheat to win? People be weird.

      The book on exclamation points is delightful! I’m learning about them from literary and typographical angles!! Plus their use in adverts is interesting!!!

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  3. A friend’s daughter named her daughter “Beck”. Not Rebecca, not Becca, not Becky. Just Beck, strictly enforced by mommy. It sounds rather harsh, like a pecking bird’s beak, not the best name for a tiny little girl, even though she will become a big one. Her grandmother doesn’t just dislike it, she hates it, thinks it sounds like someone clearing their throat, and calls her Becky whenever her mother is not in earshot.
    I’ve always thought my true calling should be naming the paint colors at the hardware store. Camembert Yellow, Fiddlehead Green, and Burnt Toast Brown.

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    • Marian, thanks for the link. You could never spam me, you’re too authentic. 😉

      I have no idea what is wrong with Jack or Sally, but according to this article they are disliked. People’s reasons for hating a name are idiosyncratic to say the least. Like I said, I like the hated names… as long as I can easily spell them.

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  5. There was (and maybe still is) a rash of “unusual” names. My great nephew is Odin (yes after the Norse god). When I first heard it I didn’t like it and found it haughty or ostentatious. He’s 22 now — great guy but I still hate the name. Not enamored of Moon Unit either but I understand he likes his name. (or maybe her name) I want a job naming stuff, any stuff — nail polish, paint, lipstick colors. I’d be even better after a margarita!

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    • Kate, I know that Odin had its moment at one point. Kind of along the lines of Olaf. Memorable names, if nothing else PLUS easy to spell. I don’t know the backstory on why Moon Unit Zappa was named such. I think she goes by Moon now, which isn’t bad.

      Yes to the margaritas— then naming colors. Together we could change the names for the better.

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  6. I used to have the hand-held Tetris game and loved it. I don’t like the other versions of it. I don’t object to any child’s name but spellings- that’s a different story.

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  7. Three of your random things resonated with me. First, I’d love to met the person (or team) who comes up with names for Pantone colors. Anyone who can think up “Postman’s Trouser” must be an interesting soul (although “trouser” sounds decidedly incomplete). Second, I love that there’s a history of the exclamation point, as if the overused punctuation mark somehow has character and feelings. Finally, our young granddaughter is named Charlotte and bias aside, I think it’s an elegant name. The Princess of Wales would surely agree with me.

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    • Dave, I know that Pantone controls which colors will be popular worldwide, so I am in awe of the company. Not that I like all their choices, but the reach they have is amazing.

      The book on the Exclamation Point is a delight, a bit academic perhaps, but nerdy me is fully invested in learning the poor dear’s story!!!

      I like Charlotte as a name, too. I don’t know why the unlikeable names were dissed, but the article was clear about which ones were problematic. Not for me, though.

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  8. Tetris is the ONLY video game (besides Pong) that I played for hours of endless entertainment.

    I just added Season 1 of Poker Face to my library queue
    Because even though I enjoy steering my own canoe
    I have the highest regard for YOU . . . and KNOW you wouldn’t steer me wrong!

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    • Nancy, I, too, enjoyed Tetris like no other video game. I’d get delightfully lost in it, letting my mind relax. 368 Chickens is not relaxing.

      Poker Face is almost like Columbo updated for this era with a smart unassuming woman solving crimes as she drives around the country. We like it a lot.

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  9. I have always been fascinated by color names, and thought it would be fun to be in a color brainstorming session. love the new and innovative names they’ve come up with for nail polish colors in the last few years, named myself and my friends after the polish colors we were wearing on a trip to Mexico once, I was ‘dusty rose.’ my most recent Subaru color was named ‘plasma yellow pearl’ which sounded repulsive to me and I renamed my car ‘matcha’ as the color resembled the beautiful green tea color much more than a gross yellow color.

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    • beth, ‘matcha’ is a MUCH BETTER name for a car color. I like it, but wonder about the minds of whoever named it ‘plasma yellow pearl’ because those people were just deranged.

      I like nail polish color names too. There’s a cheeky joy in them that makes me smile.

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  11. Meant to add, Tetris is probably the last screen game I can claim to have been hooked on. I’d play until the blocks dropped too fast for me and then put the game down in utter frustration. Maybe “timer” games just aren’t for me. On the other hand, I love a trio of free NYT puzzles: Strands, Wordle, and Connections. They have become my morning coffee companions.

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    • Dave, I know how you feel about Tetris. I’ve played other games but none have hooked me like it did.

      I play your morning trio of word games PLUS I play Wordiply on The Guardian and Blossom, a Merriam-Webster game. They get my brain clicking.

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      • Just tried Wordiply for the first time and I may be hooked – thanks! 44/85% – how’d I do? The competitive aspect works well, since select family members and I already share scores from the other games.

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        • Wordiply is lots of fun. I’ve played it for a few years and only had two days when I couldn’t find the 5 words necessary to win. Glad you like it, enjoy.

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  12. Does anyone remember Atari? I remember playing Pac Man on the Atari. I’ve never been any good at Tetris and I panic when the shapes start dropping faster and faster! The only time I pay any attention (almost nil) to color is if I have to paint a room. Fortunately that hasn’t happened in over 7 years…being a renter and all 🙂 I too get a bit put off by the spelling of names, not so much the name itself, although the couple I worked with recently prepping for birth told me they were naming their son some version of the name Mako- as in Mako Shark? I skirted around probing that decision.

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    • Deb, I remember Atari but only remember playing Pac Man in bars while drinking with friends. It was something outside of my house.

      I take your point about how you don’t need to know color names when you’re not painting your walls. Makes sense.

      Mako? Okay… sure… why not? As long as it is easy to spell then I can go with it, but do question the reasoning behind the name. Fascinating.

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  13. I’ve lived in fairly diverse cities and am now in LA County. Having been a soccer coach and run an elementary school library, I think I’ve been exposed to quite a few names from many different cultures. I might not have liked all the kids, but I can’t remember hating on a name. Trying to figure out which Aiden or Braden or Jackson or Luke or London or Landon someone was referring to was probably the biggest issue I had with kids’ names. AI, which is merely a plagiarist algorithm created by tech bros who resent having to pay creatives, is fueled by far too much energy and water. AI doesn’t make me twitchy, it induces rage.

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  14. I used to love Tetris and would feel as annoyed as you at playing an unwinnable game.

    I love the names given to paint colours. Postman’s Pants is so much more fun that blue. I was getting carried away on Mr. Boddington’s blog. What a fun place to get lost in. Must bookmark it 🙂

    I would be extremely unsettled and have such an aversion to this stuff that I will not touch it, not even to try it.

    Yaya!! Sooo happy Poker Face is coming back. Such. A. Fabulous. Show!

    I could see myself reading that book ! I am rather nerdy, too.

    My grandmother hated my name. Actually, she was not pleased with my sisters’, either. She could not understand why my mother would choose English names (despite the fact my mother married an Anglo (as we call English speaking people in Quebec)). And, she had quite the nerve considering her son had the fool notion of allowing her to choose his son’s name – after he asked her to be godmother – and, because she was not allowed to call her son the name – husband did not like the name so she called him Royal – which is weird, too, she gave it to her grandson: Alvarez – there is not a hispanic bone in any of us…

    I love that. Instead of what I am grateful for, what have I learned… Hmmm… something to ponder for myself.

    You so often make me think as well as laugh and discover new stuff!

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    • Dale, Tetris fun, 368 Chickens no fun. I agree that color names are another fun thing in life. The book on the exclamation point has charmed me and opened my mind.

      Another Poker Face fan. I have my fingers crossed that season 2 will be as good as season 1. Guess we will find out over the next few months.

      I’m laughing about your family name situation. I know that some grandparents have disliked grandchildren’s names for as long as parents have been naming their kids. Royal as a name? Of course I had an Uncle Welcome so who am I to say! 🙄

      The nighttime question has become part of my routine. It opens my mind to see my days in a different way and complements being grateful. Win win!

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      • Tetris IS. I’ve never even heard of 368 Chickens. Like one of your readers wrote – the names of colours for nail polish, especial Opi are fantabulous. I bet it was charming.

        So, I am a doofus. I saw Russian Doll but NOT Poker Face because I could not get access to it! I was sure I had. Shite.

        Royal is a name! Matter of fact, we have a lovely singer named Royal Wood – here’s a little sample https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jP0-uS7tx3c

        Uncle Welcome! Wow!!

        I really do like that. Nighttime question. Gonna consider trying that one.

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  16. I don’t consider the day complete without learning something new.
    AI? Not a fan.
    And while naming your child is an intensely personal choice I would never shame, I agree with disliking the weird spellings. It’s not different, just annoying.

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    • River, you and are peas in a pod. I must learn something from each day, it’s hardwired into me. Don’t like AI but also realize it is here to stay.

      Yes you’re right, different spellings can be annoying. I want to be conscientious when spelling someone’s child’s name and most likely like the kid, but some spellings are kind of out there. Like, say what?

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  17. I have never played Tetris. I don’t have much interest in video games, but I would be frustrated if there was no way to win. I haven’t watched Poker Face. Maybe I should. We don’t have a ‘show’ that we are drawn to at the moment. We tend to do things in the evenings, Coach preps classes he plans to teach and I write, or get caught up on signing permission slips and reading the 1 billion end of year emails from schools. It’s May. Ugh.

    I enjoy reading the various fun names for colors, but I do not think I missed my calling there. A woman attended my writers group for a few months, and insisted we should all be using AI in our writing. What? Can’t say she was missed when she stopped showing up.

    I am blown away by names like ‘Chair’ or ‘Apple’, you know? Celebs tend to gravitate to those sort of ‘names’. Seems silly. My FIL shared his unfavorable opinion about our 3rd son’s name when we were still in the delivery room. It was beyond rude. Took the wind out of Coach’s sail. Who does that? The name has grown in popularity since we used it. I love LOVE the name. FIL said, “Sounds like he’s gonna be a farmer.” Funny enough, Tank (not his real name) would love to be a farmer, and I’m sure we never shared that story of his gpa with him. His name is the lead character’s name in the first Lego movie but we spell it with two ‘t’s’ at the end. (that came out when Tank about probably 12 – in case you care to look it up).

    It’s still early, so maybe I’ll learn something later today – but I googled babies who have sensory issue and whether or not they have difficulty pooping and felt like that might be the connection to why Baby Cry A Lot is so fussy right before he poops. I only have to care for him for a few more weeks. I might make a paper chain to demonstrated how many days I have left with him. #freedom

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    • Ernie, when Tetris first came out I was hooked, but now think about it nostalgically. Poker Face is smart and funny and different but not in a violent way, so I like it.

      A woman in a writers group wanted you to use AI!!! Well that’s awful, misses the point of being a writer. No wonder she wasn’t missed.

      You’re right about those celebrity names, weirdly unexpected shall we say? Your FIL sounds like a piece of work to say what he said when he said it. Kind of goes to the point of the article I linked too. Looked up Tank’s real name, got it now.

      Baby Cry A Lot sounds like a handful but maybe will grow out of his fussiness? You should make a paper chain to his last day. If for no other reason than it’ll keep you focused on freedom.

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  18. I don’t think I can top Postman’s trousers so I’ll pass on color naming! My grandson’s name is Asher and they call him “Ashy” – 😜 I am a cypher geek – they’re often stupid but always winnable.

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    • Jan, the naming of colors would be great fun for me, but alas I never found a job doing that. Asher is a wonderful name. I like the nickname, too.

      Good luck with 368 Chickens. I hope you win. Me? Not even close.

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  19. I only just got up so no learning here yet. Not forgetting is the order of the day at the moment. 😊

    Many moons ago I used to be a high school teacher and often saw the effects of terrible name choices and spellings. Students with names such as Almond or Cinnamon who approached me before class to tell me that they’re called Al and Cindy. They wanted to ensure that I wouldn’t call out the name printed on the class list. The worst one I encountered was Cyanide. Not kidding. He called himself Cy and eventually legally changed it to Cy. That sort of weird name thing happened more often than you might think. And the ridiculous spellings were a nightmare for everyone.

    What I’m reading – from a a number of different sources – about the negatives of AI is terribly alarming. My opinion is that we probably shouldn’t be going down that road. Not even a little bit.

    Never played Tetris. I’ve never really gotten into games – either board or computer – all that much, but used to play cribbage with my dad. There’s a blast from the past. 😊

    Have a good week.

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    • Lynette, interesting names among those high school kids. I can understand why they went by nicknames. Almond and Cinnamon are sort of understandable name choices, but Cyanide? I try not to be judgy, but no, just NO! Glad the kid legally changed his name. I can only imagine how tiring it was to deal with ridiculous spellings that baffle everyone.

      AI is slimy. It steals the writing from random people, then presents it as its own. Plagiarism at its finest, I guess. I tried it to see what it’d tell me, but don’t see myself using it. I’m too honest.

      Z-D and I play cribbage on summer evenings, sitting outside on the deck with a drink. It’s a perfectly benign game that is relaxing.

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      • Right? When I met Cy’s mother I understood. In my opinion, a complete loony whose entire existence depended on being “special” and “original.” Ugh. Almond was a boy and Cinnamon a girl. Maybe as girls’ names they’re a bit more acceptable; but I very much understood why Almond wanted to be called Al.

        That’s a nice idea. I’ll suggest that to M although it’s been a long time since I’ve played cribbage. Cheers.

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  20. I have not played Tetris or watched Poker Face, although the latter sounds appealing. I love your habit of asking what you’ve learned that day! What a wonderful way to encourage learning.

    “Does the mere existence of AI make you mutter and start to get twitchy?” YES.

    “Thinking about children’s names, have you ever disliked a child’s name so much that you voiced an opinion about it? How did that work out for ‘ya?” LOL. I have disliked many names, often because of the people bearing them. But I try to keep my mouth shut, and often when they are attached to tiny humans they regain their charm.

    “What have you learned today?” I have learned of the existence of “An Admirable Point”! I adore the exclamation point and I believe a friend of mine who shares an interest in history and punctuation would love this book.

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    • Suzanne, Poker Face is a fun modern take on the Columbo persona. I adore Natasha Lyonne and her character is memorable. It’s unique and serious in the right ways.

      So far I haven’t found one person who likes AI, but considering it is ubiquitous now many people must use it, respect it. Go figure!

      I agree that even if I dislike a name because someone who done me wrong had it, when it’s a new baby’s name I have to like it. It’s the law. 😊

      The Exclamation Point book is my type of reading. It’s well-written, slightly academic, but with a humorous tone. And not so long as to cause you to give up on being educated about, of all things, the evolution of a punctuation mark!!!

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  21. I’ve often winder d about who names the colors. “They” seem to do a decent job but whoever came up with postman’s trousers deserves a bonus.
    Some people’s names have always vexed me especially those with random apostrophes in them, and yes, those odd spellings of otherwise normal names.

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    • Micheal, I feel that had my life been different and I would have had the opportunity to name colors, I’d have been spectacular at it. Just saying…

      Names with apostrophes in them? Yep, I forgot about them. I once knew a Madonna who spelled it Ma’donna which was unnecessarily confusing. She said it was authentic to her Italian roots so YAY for her. 🤷‍♀️

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      • Hmm. I’ve been Italian for a whole bunch of years and I’ve never run across that.
        And yes, I’m sure you’d be spectacular at color naming. We can use some spectacular color names.

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  22. Interesting musings, yet again, Ally! You really are the queen of Q & A 🥰

    Naming colours isn’t my thing. Instead, I believe I missed out on an amazing career coming up with street names! I have so manh ideas they haven’t used yet!!

    And I LOVE exclamation points. I totally overuse them and will not apologise!!!

    Played so much tetris as a kid/teen in the 90’s. At some point, they made a 3D version and it was next level! 😋

    I dislike old-ish names for kids and (ugly) retro names are a big trend here. But I would never comment on a kid’s name aloud! No one wants to hear negative comments related to your kids. To each his own.

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    • Snow, your career naming streets would have been brilliant. I’ve not thought about that, but someone has to do it.

      Your unapologetic use of exclamation points is exactly the thesis of this book! That we should be using them more!! That they’re here for our enjoyment!!!

      I never played the 3D version of Tetris, but can see how it’d be fun… although would probably make my eyes cross at this point.

      I don’t know many people who have opted for old-fashioned names. It’s interesting that where you live that is going on. I like some old names, but would roll my eyes at many. I don’t think the world needs a young Jedediah or Effie Rose, running around playgrounds. But I’d never say a word if someone named their child these names. 🤐

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  23. No and no. I do Wordle and Canuckle for goofing off. Colour names are as weird as some kids’ names. My father in law told me, upon learning our daughter’s name, that if we were short of ideas, we could have asked him🤨🙄🤔. Guess he didn’t like it!

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    • Bernie, I do Wordle and a few other word games every morning. Not quite as exciting as Tetris but keeps my mind clicking.

      Yep, color names can be confusing although they’re usually spelled normally so they have that going for them.

      At least your FIL was politely understated about his disapproval of the name you chose. According to the article I linked to many grandparents are adamant about expressing their negative opinions.

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    • I’ve only explored AI on a superficial level, enough to know I don’t approve of it. It’s plagiarism software, pure and simple.

      Not going to learn the evolution of the humble misunderstood exclamation point! Color me shocked!! Yet I, a punctuation nerd, shall carry on with my day!!!

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  25. I know you asked a lot of other questions, but I am going to address the exclamation mark. I love it. It is very useful, like a good swear word.

    As far as the rest goes: No to Tetris.

    Boo to AI because I know how hard it is to actually write a book.

    I used Pantone for most of my career. Before it was used for fashion and paint it was ink colours. Each swatch had a number like Pantone 185. Or Pantone 185 C. 185 is a shade of red and designated whether the ink was for coated paper stock. No names required. I still have my Pantone swatch book.

    Oh and today, I am learning My Favourite Things on the piano.

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    • Jenn, reading this little book I’ve come to appreciate the exclamation point, something I was taught to use sparingly. I like your idea that it is like a good swear word. I find that idea endearing!!!

      I knew that Pantone had numbers associated with it, but think of it in terms of their color of the year names. I only know about it because I managed a card and gift shop that sold napkins and cups in Pantone’s color of the year. It was a big deal to be current.

      Good luck with your piano project. It’s a wonderful tune, so I’m sure soon it’ll be your favorite thing to play. 😀

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  26. I was never especially good at Tetris – my daughter is a pro. Naming colors? Nah, I don’t think so. AI scares the heck out of me. My spare time is spent playing with watercolors and doodles – the rest of my spare time is spent buying products to play with watercolors and doodles. It’s an obsession.

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    • Carol, my husband wasn’t good at Tetris but I was. One of the few games I did better than him.

      Not going to name colors, eh? Yet you’re using watercolors to goof around with. You are a complicated woman! I get the obsession with buying just the right products to paint and doodle with. Perfectly sensible. 😊

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      • Hmmm. I don’t see the conflict between not wanting to name colors but using and liking colors. There are reds, and then there are other reds – what matters is that they exist. But I feel fine about being complicated, if indeed I am.

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  27. Your “what did I learn today” is brilliant. I may try to adopt that. I believe my intense love of helping people pack boxes to move is a result of childhood Tetris. 🙂 I also love efficiency. Your AI story sounds cute and I want to read it now. BUT, AI scares the crap out of me. If I were a movie actor, I would be wetting myself. I wonder what hoops I’ll need to go through as an author to prove I wrote what I wrote. I used to think having the job of naming lipstick or nail polish colors would be amazing. Postman’s Trousers, however? I can’t visualize what color that would be, so I’m not a fan. Perhaps I am just offended for the sake of my beloved blue.

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    • Ilsa Rey, I don’t remember where I picked up the “what did I learn today” question but it has been a good one. I feel grounded after answering it every night. It’s a simple question that brings clarity.

      I have no intention of using the AI prompts to write a book. I, too, wonder what you’ll have to do to prove you are a real author? In fact, in the last half a year I’ve stumbled over some blogs that I think only have AI content. I find that disappointing, but no way to prove it.

      Good of you to defend the color blue from any ill-advised name. Someone has to take up the mantle, may as well be you. 😜

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      • My only fear with the “what I learned” question is that I might come up empty. Eek. Then what? I’d probably resort to the grateful question instead, which isn’t a bad one, either.

        Yeah, the blogs. Some of them I think are robots. I’m not sure of the purpose. Maybe they’re monetized. :/

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  28. Pantone’s infographic is very fun! 😄 Of the names Aurora, Charlotte, Elijah, Finn, Jack, Lindsay, Noah, Sally, and Tabitha, I like all of them. As for your questions, yes, I played Tetris back in the 90s day when it was a computer game that I sneaked and played at work. I was very good atg it. Never watched Poker Face. And yes, I wish I could get in on the naming of colors, especially fingernail polish colors.
    As for what I learned today, I learned there is a show called Poker Face. 😜
    Paws and Claws: Unraveling the Mystery of the Wall Destroyer, A Story about Mittens and Whiskers, Feline Detectives sounds like three titles in one!

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    • L. Marie, I’m glad you checked out the Pantone infographic. I thought it was informative and clever. I like the hated names too. Go figure.

      Tetris was my go-to distraction in the ’90s. I loved it and it gave me a chance to clear my brain before tackling something complex.

      I like what you learned today. I agree about the title for my AI book. It, and all the other ones it generated, were lengthy. The whole experience of dipping my toe into AI was odd, kind of mediocre overall.

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  30. When Tetris came out, I stayed at the office during an after-work party in order to get the highest score. I’ve barely played it since. I was addicted to MineSweeper for awhile – I was very good at it!

    Do you remember the DOS-based Hitchhiker’s Guide To The Galaxy game? It was programmed to lie & cheat!

    The name spelling always remind me of the Key&Peele AA-ron sketch (Mr Garvey – https://youtu.be/OQaLic5SE_I?feature=shared)

    I like Natashia R but can’t recall if Poker Face is the series that I liked or disliked. Thx for the heads up!!

    I’ve only been awake for an hour, but I learned that I left my front door open all night (security screen was closed/locked). And about those generators, which I’m gonna check out now!

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    • leendadll, ha! I’m laughing about your tactic to get the highest score on Tetris. I never thought of it as a competition, more of a way to clear my mind. I

      I remember MineSweeper, but not the Hitchhiker’s Guide game. That’s a pity because I love those Douglas Adams books.

      The link you shared here is HILARIOUS. I’ve not seen it before so thank you. Talk about some messed up names. 🤣

      Your learning experience for today sounds like it could be… interesting. Good luck with the AI generators. Kind of weird, tbt.

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  31. I enjoyed looking at the Pantone infographic. I used the small Pantone color matcher in my PR/Advertising career. It’s all online now, I guess and we don’t have a cute paper thing to look at colors. I played Angry Bird for a bit, but other than that, I’d have to go back to pong on a machine in a hotel we stayed at when I was a kid. Oh, and Pac Man.

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  32. I’m maybe one of the few people in the known universe that doesn’t hate AI. A lot of the pictures I use in my blog entries are now generated using AI, which is a whole hell of a lot faster than plowing through Internet searches and free picture sites. Sometimes, when I need to write an explanation of something and don’t feel like wasting time writing it, I’ll let Perplexity write it. Here’s an example of what I mean: https://thesoundofonehandtyping.com/2025/04/03/conversation-atozchallenge/
    I use it instead of DuckDuckGo for a lot of my searches now. It’s a pretty valuable tool…

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  33. As someone in the education field, AI terrifies me. That’s all I’m going to say.

    Have you and I ever discussed the color of tennis balls? It’s very controversial in our house. I would love to know what you say when asked what color a tennis ball is.

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    • NGS, I agree with you about AI. I do not see anything good coming from it, fear its power to distort information.

      I would say that a tennis ball is bright yellowish green. What do other people say?

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  34. My mom told me once that a good way to name your child was to shout whatever name you wanted out the front door. If you weren’t embarrassed or it didn’t sound ridiculous, then you could use that name. Those were the days when kids actually played outside and their parents called them in for dinner. I am of the opinion that you can name your child whatever you want, I just feel sorry for the kid if the name chosen was one that other kids would make fun of. They can be so cruel without the incentive. I think the first “odd” name I really noticed was Apple (Gwyneth Paltrow/Chris Martin) although I think she uses appletini as her instagram so I guess she is working with it. Wonderful to read you on this Tuesday!

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    • Janet, your mother’s advice is delightful and pragmatic and makes me smile. Simpler times, for sure. I agree about naming your kid what you want, but I also reserve the right to not like some of the names. I’ll keep that to myself, of course.

      I don’t know what it is with celebrity children’s names. Many are a little kooky but if I can spell it without stress I like it. Go Apple!

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  35. I find the topic of choosing names to be fascinating. I’ve often thought about a post on the topic but have never decided to do it. I always tell people to never reveal their baby’s name before birth, because you do NOT want to hear opinions. That said, I know someone whose recently born granddaughter was named Agnes. Agnes!!!! I cannot fathom calling a baby Agnes. What’s old is new again, I guess!

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    • Bijoux, I’d love to know more about how people go about choosing baby names. I know my grandmother, Daisy, told my mother not to call me by her name. My mother obeyed so I’m not a flower.

      As for Agnes… it was a great name back in the day but maybe little Agnes will charm the socks off everyone and her name will come to mean happiness. It’ll be a new day for the name. I hope.

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  36. Oh lolololol Ally, with regards to our conversation yesterday about the “frivolity” of fiction, the same person who said that he (of course it was a he) only reads serious non-fiction ALSO asked me if I used Chat GPT to write my book. OMG. I answered, simply, no. But then he wouldn’t stop! He kept asking me why not, and how it would really “tighten things up.” Keep in mind this man never read a word I wrote. And also, he never reads novels. So.
    As for the grandparents thing, my god, if I am ever lucky enough to have grandchildren I will WEAR THEIR NAMES ON T-SHIRTS. I mean, I wouldn’t, that’s weird, but I’d just be so thrilled I couldn’t care less of their names. That said, I never told my parents we were naming our firstborn Mark, as I have a cousin Mark (he’s 16 years older and I didn’t really know him). I thought their reaction would be negative. Once my Mark was born (he was the first grandchild) they didn’t dare say a thing about the name! But my grandma, god love her, had things to say about Jake. Apparently she knew a Jake in her youth and that Jake was a real womanizer? So Grandma kept saying “I don’t know WHY you would name him Jake.” I DID NOT KNOW THE JAKE OF YOUR YOUTH, GRANDMA. DEAL WITH IT.

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    • Nicole, WHAT A JACKASS! That guy is way out of line, but probably also an example of how some morons, for lack of a better word, think. Avoid him in the future.

      EXACTLY about grand baby names. That’s how my friends approach the situation, they are happy to see the little bambinos regardless of the names. But apparently some grandparents aren’t like that. Kind of like your Grandma with her tirades about the name Jake. A lovely name. Deal with it grandma, is right!

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  37. When we got our first computer in the mid-eighties, I enjoyed playing the original Tetris. It was my first experience with how addictive computer games could be. Actually, I’ve more or less steered clear of them ever since. But of course all the social media I scroll through can also be addictive.

    I’m unsettled too by AI’s book plot generator. The only AI I’m using now is the occasional image when I don’t have any appropriate photos. I used AI for my recent blog post about Conclave, and they did a good job on the first try.

    I like exclamation points. That book sounds interesting.

    I like all the most hated names. But a couple of weeks ago my newborn great-grandson was given a trio of weird names. I won’t tell you what they are, but I’m sure you’d agree. The strangest part is that they gave him the surname of a childless uncle. How can they even do that? I love my granddaughter and grandson-in-law, and they’re not stupid, so I guess this is going to work out.

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    • Nicki, you’re right about how social media can be as addictive as some computer games. Kind of the same principle, keep playing/scrolling to feel good.

      I’ve not tried generating AI photos but I know they can be exactly what someone is looking for. I’m not taken with AI in general but it is all around us now.

      The book is interesting if you like a history and literature and typography. I’m now officially a fan of exclamation points!!!

      I like the hated names too. I don’t know how you can use a surname that isn’t yours, but I suppose there is a way. A trio of peculiar names sounds like more trouble than it’d be worth. But what do I know? Maybe it is the done thing now. 🤷‍♀️

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  38. I have never played Tetris or watched Poker Face. Should I hang my head? I do play Sudoku, Solitaire, Wordscapes, and do jigsaw puzzles online. I watch a lot of mystery type series in the evening, except I loved 1923 because of Helen Mirren and Harrison Ford. The naming of colors has never made sense to me, but I’m glad there is a variety to choose from. AI does make me wonder about the reality of things I read or see. I probably could do just fine without its existence. There are some names and some spellings I don’t understand, but I’d never consider voicing an opinion about it. My two grandchildren were born and named, and I smiled and said ‘thank you for the best job ever.’ What have I learned today? Well, I’ve learned that I’d really prefer not to live somewhere that it rains every single day. Kind of down right depressing. Happy Tuesday to you!

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    • Judy, the games you play sound like fun. I’ve never been any good at Sudoku, should probably make a point to play it to keep my brain challenged.

      I know of 1923 but haven’t seen it. I’m with you about the naming of colors. Some of those names are baffling, but if the color works for me, I’m in.

      I feel the same way about AI. It introduces doubt into all written communication + photography and that worries me. How can the truth set me free if I don’t know what the truth is?

      I like your gracious approach: “thank you for the best job ever.” Exactly. Too much rain too many days in a row is difficult to deal with. I know how you feel.

      Happy Tuesday to you, too.

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  39. 1. Have you ever played Tetris? Have you watched Poker Face? How do you goof off in your free time? No. Yes, and I am so excited to hear another season is coming! I enjoy jigsaw puzzles, reading, watching TV, and floating in the pool…to name a few.

    2. Do you believe, like I do, that the naming of colors is a career you were meant for but never found? I’m not sure I could come up with anything better than Postman’s Trousers.

    3. Does the mere existence of AI make you mutter and start to get twitchy? Yes. There is so much potential for good and evil.

    4. Thinking about children’s names, have you ever disliked a child’s name so much that you voiced an opinion about it? How did that work out for ‘ya? No, I have not. I agree with you on unusual spellings. That said, I have to admit liking Saira. It’s unique, but pretty straight forward.

    5. What have you learned today? That a new episode of Poker Face is coming. That Instagram stories are limited to 60 seconds and Reels can now be 3 minutes. (Since I rarely make videos, that may seem like unnecessary information, but hey, you never know!)

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    • Christie, I like your ways of goofing off. Poker Face, I hope, will be the TV watching highlight of our spring.

      Postman’s Trousers does set a high bar. I like any spelling that makes sense without me needing to doublecheck how to spell it. That said I could go with Saira.

      I didn’t know that about IG so thanks for the info. So far I’ve only used Instagram to post static photos, but if I ever venture into videos I’ll be aware. I have learned something.

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  40. Tetris isn’t the same, either. I put it on my phone last year, but the old feelings never returned so I removed it.
    I loved the Mr. Boddington site, thank you. The April dispatch featuring Keukenhof caught my eye and charmed me. I love Classic Blue and Postman’s Trouser and would like to paint my bedroom a bluer shade of blue, as either of these would be.
    With the birth of my first child, I learned not to share the name with people until the child is born, when they’re less likely to yuk on one’s yum. Still, people did complain. And made suggestions.
    I remember several years ago, I was delighted a new baby called Courtney had arrived. Then her mother told me it’s Q-O-R-T-N-I. It would be another decade before I encountered the term “Tragedeigh” which explains names like Qortni.
    I have three uncommon names but they’re all spelled as commonly as they can be. For that, I am grateful.

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    • joey, I’ve not tried Tetris as a grown up adult, seems like it wouldn’t be the same as you’ve confirmed.

      A bluer bedroom would be relaxing. I remember friends who went with a dark navy bedroom which may sound dreary, but was so restful.

      Yes, sharing a baby’s name ahead of time can be difficult. I’ve been fortunate in that I’m an agreeable friend so I’ve know the arrival of Lydia or Isaac before everyone else. Apparently there were some unkind remarks about those names.

      What the heck about Courtney!!! That isn’t even vaguely a properly spelled name. At least Candyce makes some sense. As a person with a middle name that is an Anne with an “E” I have sympathy for anyone with a slightly different spelling. It’s tedious to correct people.

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      • Anne with an E is my preference, I believe Es are better. Isaac and Lydia are both lovely names.
        The absolute best response to naming Rowan was the four year old next door, “A rockin and a rowin?” That four year old is all grown up now, and a mother to a Rooney, age one.
        Our bedroom is very blue now, midtone and bright to counteract the northern exposure, and I do think darker is the move. I had an eggplant dining room and it was divine. People were skeptical but then agreed.

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        • joey, I agree about adding Es and that Isaac and Lydia were/are great names. Those kids are doing wonderfully so whatevs to the critics.

          I like Rowan and adore the 4 y.o. who knew what to say. Perfect. We had an eggplant accent wall in the tv room at one point and it was dramatic, but in a good way. I understand about intense colors. You either like them or not.

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  41. I often wonder how someone comes up with the names of paint colors. So many are over-the-top.

    Don’t get me started on AI. I could complain for quite a while.

    Our oldest son’s name is Ian. When my in-laws found out what we planned to name him, there was much wailing and gnashing of teeth. It was ridiculous.

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    • Linda, I admit that name colors fascinate me. I know I’d be good at naming them but alas I do not have that job.

      Yep about AI. I only know one proponent of it. Odd that he does, in fact.

      I like Ian. What’s wrong with that name? Obviously you were right but still it makes you wonder how anyone could dislike it, doesn’t it?

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      • We named our son before Ian became relatively common. Since they hadn’t heard it before, my in-laws deemed it a fate worse than death.🙄 My father-in-law finally came to terms with it when he realized Ian Fleming existed.

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  42. I’ve adapted to all three grandsons’ names although I was hesitant about two of them. (mainly because of misspelling potential) I never played Tetris and generally stick to games that I can (maybe) win. Otherwise, what’s the point? I’ve never seen Poker Face but would undoubtedly like it, especially if it’s on a streaming service I don’t have. Sigh.

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    • Margaret, it’s the spelling thing that gets to me. Life is tricky enough without having to spell your first name all the time. You never played Tetris? It was fun then maybe not so much now. And as for 386 Chickens don’t even bother unless you like defeat.

      That’s really the thing about streaming, you know you’d like something but you’re not going to add another service. It’s crazy.

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  43. I have never played Tetris but my son once commented that I would be a master at it after he watched me fit an entire dorm room worth of stuff into my car as I was bringing him home after his freshman year of college.

    I’ve never hated a kid’s name – BUT when one of my aunt’s had her first child (named Vincent) her sister’s hated it so much that one of them nicknamed him Beaner from day one – to my knowledge they all still call him that nearly 30 years later.

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    • Gigi, yes your son is right. You’d own Tetris because that’s what it’s all about, getting squares to fit together in a small space.

      Okay, while I personally like any name that has ‘bean’ in it I don’t know how I feel about someone else nicknaming your child as a kind of passive-aggressive statement. Vincent is a fine name. 🙂

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  44. Darn, we don’t get the service that Poker Face is on. We’ve seen Natasha Lyonne in several shows and she never disappoints.

    I often have to restrain myself from using too many !!!!!!! I am so relieved that now I can abandon all constraints.

    Not a fan of AI unless it is used for good (medical advances come to mind). Most of what I see now is pure laziness. I do follow an AI artist on Instagram (davidszauder), though, who is amazing (very weird, but amazing)!

    Oh, and Postman’s Trousers is such a fabulous name for a color!!!! Clever, and we all know exactly what color it is (at least in the U.S.).

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    • Janis, I like Poker Face but I wouldn’t add a stream just to see it. NL is delightful in this show, though. And that’s no bull shit [her go to response to things].

      Yes, all constraints are behind us now in this brave new !!! world. The book is a bit academic but I’m enjoying it.

      I didn’t realize there were AI artists, but why not? The revised color names were funny but also spot on to creating instant understanding about what the color looked like.

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  45. The joys of being grandparents. It’s funny and so true, even in our extended family. We had no children, so watching siblings bite their tongues while accepting what’s happening with their offspring is hilarious.

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  46. Those paint colors were so entertaining to read! My favorite was Outdated Bain de Soleil—I had totally forgotten about Bain De Soleil. I actually Googled it, and it turns out they’re bringing it back in 2025!

    It’s interesting that they shared the names the grandparents didn’t like, but not the ones they did. Speaking of names, I saw a TikTok the other day and apparently all the names kids today think are “old” are from the ’80s—Jennifer, Heather, Kelly, etc. Boy, do I feel ancient. 😅

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  47. I have always wondered who decides what colours will be in fashion and why some colours have weird names. Also some people give their children weird names thankfully none of mine have done that

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    • Joanne, the name thing whether it is for colors or kids is something for which there is no right answer exactly but does lead to conversations.

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  48. What a fun post, Ally! I really enjoyed it!

    Have you ever played Tetris? Have you watched Poker Face? How do you goof off in your free time?
    I’ve never played Tetris! I was never interested in games back in the day. I played Pong and Pac-Man a couple of times. I enjoy playing Word Chums with my mom now, but I’m still not much into games. I’ve never watched Poker Face. I generally goof off by falling asleep while watching YouTube videos!

    Do you believe, like I do, that the naming of colors is a career you were meant for but never found?
    I love all the creative color names, but I’m actually terrible at coming up with good names. I enjoy Pantone’s colors of the year.

    Does the mere existence of AI make you mutter and start to get twitchy? When it first came out, it did. But I’m getting more and more complacent about it. My pen name is Scarlett Adams, and I’ll be writing Little Hoofed Troublemakers! The plot it came up with for me was very basic and unoriginal. I suppose AI could draw the illustrations as well!

    Thinking about children’s names, have you ever disliked a child’s name so much that you voiced an opinion about it? How did that work out for ‘ya?
    Ha! Ha! I have never voiced an opinion about disliking a child’s name! I think that would go very badly! I have felt sorry for kids with unfortunate names or spellings.

    What have you learned today? I learned that it’s OK if I enjoy and use exclamation points! Yay!

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    • Michelle, ha! I like the idea of you falling asleep to YOuTube videos. Whatever works, eh?

      Pantone colors of the year are what got me interested in Pantone as a company. Hello, Scarlett Adams author of Little Hoofed Troublemakers. So happy to meet you.

      I’ve never had an opinion I was willing to share about a child’s name either. Apparently there are some people who opine about them. I may not like convoluted spellings but so be it.

      Yes, use exclamation points at random!!! I plan to henceforth.

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  49. Reflecting back on what you’ve learned in a day is a great habit. Thanks for sharing that.

    I haven’t played Tetris in years. I have a few games on my phone that I open from time to time.

    Being partially colorblind, I don’t think you’d want me naming colors. Unless you want to go with, “Kinda looks like purple”

    I usually have to read what some Nimrod has cooked up as a new use for AI before I get twitchy.

    I never commented on someone’s name or their kid’s name but I’ll look to see if others have.

    I learned that some large grocery stores have over 500 full size carts and 150-200 small carts.

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    • Dan, Tetris was fun, might still be but as an adult I am not going to play it.

      Considering some of the names for colors I’ve seen ‘kinda looks like purple’ would pass. You might have more of a future than you would guess.

      AI and twitchy seem to go hand in hand. The whole idea of commenting negatively on someone else’s name seems way off base. I dunno about some people.

      I didn’t know about the shopping cart numbers, but am impressed by them and that you know this. I’ve never contemplated how many carts are available in a store. Wonder how many hand baskets are the norm? [Rhetorical question]

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  50. Thanks for introducing me to 368 chickens 🤣…also if you see a horror novel about a serial.killer who implants spiders into people killing them from.the inside out called Venomous Threads by Emily Clarke that is written by me 😁😉

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  51. YES! I would LOVE to be someone who comes up with names for colours or ice cream flavours. It sounds like such a fun job.

    When we told one family member the name of our second-born (a son; I don’t use his real name on my blog, but it’s Levi), they said outright that they didn’t like it. It is decidedly old-fashioned, but I love it and have zero regrets! They were even more horrified with his middle name (named after one of my husband’s favourite movie characters). They thought we were joking. We weren’t and he gets SO many compliments on his middle name.

    When he was born he was the first Levi in our doctor’s practice. Now there seem to be Levi’s everywhere. I guess we started a trend. And our daughter is Abigail (goes by Abby) and that is a very common – albeit “old-fashioned” – name these days.

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    • Elisabeth, yes to naming the ice cream flavors. That would be a wonderful job, think of the perks: tasting ice cream!

      I don’t get criticizing parents for their name choices. I mean sometimes the names are off the wall, but Levi is a wonderful name. I like it. Abigail is a classic name that never goes out of style. I’ve known of Abby and of Gail as nicknames. It’s interesting to learn about who and why people hate a child’s name— like it is any of their business to begin with. 🤨

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    • Donna, ah ha! So you don’t play the game or watch the TV show, but you’re a scroller. Aren’t we all sometimes?

      Pantone colors, the selection of the color of the year, fascinate me. I like knowing what is in so happy I could learn ‘ya something about the company.

      Great answers, btw. 😊

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  53. Never played Tetris or any online games. I still play the original version of solitaire, way too much.

    I can see color naming being a pretty cool gig, if they make sense. But my pedicurist has polishes with totally bizarre, nonsensical names not actually related to the color, eg “Beloved”. Most are longer. Really, at my next appointment, I should take some notes.

    AI is a bit creepy, but I’ve learned some ways to put it to good use.

    I do not concern myself with children’s names. In fact, after someone tells me their kids’ names, I promptly forget them.

    I learn many things each day, but one thing I’ve never learned is the proper way to break up with a veterinarian.

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    • Eilene, I haven’t played solitaire in years and I should revisit it. Your toes sport a color called “Beloved”? Yes that color name means nothing, but if the color is pretty go for it!

      I know how you feel about AI and realize not all of it is awful, but I’m still avoiding it. Laughing about you forgetting children’s names. I like the names, often remember them, but do not like or remember unusual spellings of the names. However people do what people do regardless of my opinion.

      Interesting question about how to break up with a veterinarian. For me our cats died, so that was that, BUT if your pet is healthy… maybe just go somewhere else without any comment to the current vet. That’s how I’ve changed Primary Care Physicians in the past, just leave the practice for a better closer one and let them wrestle your records from your previous place.

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    • Anne, I’ve never played Free Cell. I don’t play Tetris anymore but do play Candy Crush Soda Saga. It’s fun and colorful and totally pointless in a good way! 😉

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  55. There are a lot of old names that the kids are making new again and I can’t stand most of them. Like Pearl, Hazel, Agatha, Peter, Charles, Virgil. They sound like that belong on my genealogy charts.

    I’ve always been fascinated with Pantone and choosing the colors that will be popular a decade ahead. It makes sense, though, that designers of home goods—carpeting, furniture, paint, kitchen gadgets need time to gear up to production. I could never come up with new names for old colors, though. Some are so clever.

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    • Jean, I’m laughing about your observation that some of the*new* old names belong on genealogical charts. You have a point.

      Pantone is a business that influences us whether or not we like the color of the year. I understand how it’s helpful for manufacturers and advertisers so good for them, but no way will I use a color if it doesn’t please me.

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  56. Oh, I’m glad to hear that Poker Face is going to be back, it’s so quirky and she’s the perfect modern day Columbo. I loved Tetris back in the day, but I haven’t played it in years. Goodness I was HOOKED on that game.

    I love the idea of you being the person naming colors. Postal worker pants blue is so specific and wonderful.

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    • J, I enjoyed Poker Face and hope season 2 is as good as season 1. I found myself saying bull shit more often while it was on— then laughing at myself for channeling Charlie Cale.

      The idea of naming colors appeals to me, would allow my wordiness to combine with my eye for colors to create timeless names. But alas it is not to be.

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  57. Ally, well I am probably an oddity, but I have never played Tetris or any video game. I do play Solitaire though and have for many years and I also play Word Wipe, Wordle and Spelling Bee daily, but have given up on Connections as I do so abysmally.

    I like the idea of giving descriptive colors instead of blah names, but I have to admit I never thought of it being a career, figuring that it was ad agencies that sat around and tried to come up for new colors for lipsticks, nail polish, house paint or ice cream flavors – who knew there were that many colors? I thought “Purple Cow” for ice cream was creative for Meijer, but nothing beats Ben & Jerry’s names – Cherry Garcia was once a favorite of mine.

    I am not a big AI fan and that is why I hurried up and got this Windows 11 laptop as Windows 12 was *supposed* to debut for back-to-school 2024, but it will now be Fall, 2025. It is supposed to have a lot of AI features. I think Windows 11 has too many AI features to be honest. I write my longish posts in Word and Microsoft did something funky with Word a couple of days ago, so every time I start a new document, it gives me writing prompts, like today’s: “Draft a potential itinerary for a college reunion in London” or “Create a low-budget, three-day trip plan for Paris” and, if you don’t like those “Describe what you’d like to write.” Really? Must. Turn. This. Annoyance. Off. Permanently. I have to click out of it each time I go into Word. Be glad you use a Mac.

    I can’t think about a child’s name I disliked and said something, however, I do mutter to myself a lot when I see silly spellings of common names like you showed us here. Some of them make no sense at all – what is wrong with the tried-and-true spelling of names? Once I had a boss who had three young boys, all with nicknames of Tommy, Bobby, Billy … he took it a step further by calling me “Linny” … finally, I could take it no longer and said “Tom … my name is Linda.” Sheesh.

    I am taking a four-week, online course in botanical sketching and watercolors. It is week #2 and today I watched three videos, then painted an Alyssum and a Snapdragon. 😊

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    • Linda, I know how you feel about Connections. Z-D gave up on it for the same reason as you. Have you played NYT’s Strands? It’s fun and doable.

      Yay Cherry Garcia ice cream. I haven’t eaten that in ages. Your Microsoft machine bothers you with writing prompts? That is very annoying and seems pointless to me. My iMac may be an old one, but she doesn’t try to nudge me to write something, has better manners than your machine.

      I’m with you about the spelling of names. I know people want their children to be unique, to stand out in a good way, so the parents pick an alternative spelling. Seems like a burden on the child to me, but will admit it is memorable, Linny. 😜

      What a cool class for you to take. I have zero skill when it comes to drawing + painting, but you will do great. Most interesting.

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      • Connections was too much about current pop culture or movies/shows/sports I knew nothing about. I’ll have to try Strands then as I like Wordle and Spelling Bee by NYT.

        Yes, there are lots of quirky things with Windows, including some new one which I will turn off once the update rolls out. I follow a tech site and this app is called “Recall” and it remembers and stores everywhere you go on your computer, the same as your internet history, only it takes screenshots, but not only internet sites, but what documents or places you go on your computer in the course of the day. It hogs a lot of space too. I love my Windows 7 laptops – they are old, but reliable and are not newfangled. I store pics on one and the other I keep as a back-up.

        I “get” nicknames or shortened names, but too weird names will have the kids changing their names once they’re old enough. I have worked with several attorneys who went by their first name as an initial, but used their second name, for that reason. The attorney who called me Linny was very nice, a former priest and I didn’t want to insult him, but *every* time we interacted, he called me Linny.

        I like the class so far and it goes until May 25th. This artist does all nature sketches, a lot of birds, too. I wish the class had been in Wintertime though as I am a little jammed up now with the class, videos and assignments and trying to walk when it is finally good weather again. I took two sketching classes using waxed colored pencils as a medium back in April, drawing water and trees, but didn’t care for the class at all. I’m no whiz at art, but I hope to learn.

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        • You hit the nail on the head: they are old, but reliable and are not newfangled. That is how most people want their computers work yet these companies keep messing with something that works to make it messier and complicated and from my point of view tedious to use.

          I get what you mean about nicknames, they can be delightful but when they aren’t wanted they can be annoying. I am comfortable with ‘Ally’ but I am NOT with ‘Al’ 🤨

          Best of luck with your art classes. No doubt you’ll learn something of value, but I can understand how they are time-consuming.

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          • It’s pretty difficult to make a nickname out of Linda. 🙂 So, I have to try “Strands” tomorrow as today they changed the format after you solve the Wordle puzzle, as it didn’t display Strands and the format was a little different for Spelling Bee too – people are always messin’ with stuff!

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  58. Oh my goodness, I’m laughing about your question about stating opinions about a child’s name. I’m thinking the way you asked the question communicated a lot! 🙂

    Nope, I’ve never stated an opinion about a name. That’s just asking for it!

    I loved Tetris back in the day. I’m glad you’ve warned me so that I can just stay away from 368 chicken!

    Love these random things, Ally!

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    • Wynne, I’d never express an opinion about a child’s name but I am curious about if someone did criticize how was that someone’s opinion received. Oddly enough my grandmother, Daisy, asked her daughters to NOT name their daughters after her. They did as asked thus I am not Daisy.

      Tetris fun, 368 Chickens annoying. I don’t see how anyone could ever win at it, but have read that some people do. 🫤

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  59. I sent this Seinfeld video to another blogger recently regarding exclamation points. (I apologize if that was you.) It’s pretty funny if you haven’t seen it before.

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  60. Yeah! Poker Face back tomoz…and names yes I have disliked some names or spellings of said names however I don’t get why those names are top of the most hated names I like most of them…I hope your week is going well , Ally 🙂

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  61. I have played Tetris! I’ve haven’t given much thought to the naming of colors, but I do wonder who names the prescription drugs we hear about endless on TV ads! AI freaks me out! I know I can use it to generate things at work, but I refuse to! Just yesterday I made up a whole sheet on “a” vs. “an” with the use of my brain rather than IA! Have you seen the Seinfeld episode in which a few of the characters get bent out of shape over exclamation point usage?! It’s funny!!!! I, personally, think that exclamation points can be overused! They were so overused on one blog that I eventually stopped following the blog! I mean, that wasn’t the only reason, but it was one reason! Have a great day, Ally!!

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    • The Travel Architect, I, too, wonder about who names prescription drugs. And why the spellings are usually just slightly nonsensical. I feel sorry for medical personnel who deal with the spellings every day.

      Good for you doing something without using AI. I don’t use it, preferring to use my brain like you did. I’m freaked out by it as well.

      I know the Seinfeld episode you mention and am smiling thinking about it. I’ve known one person in real life who overuses exclamation points so that they add nothing to that which she writes. I can understand about not following a blogger who, among other things, is too enthusiastic about them!!!

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  63. When I was a kid, I bought a book of baby names because I loved reading about names and making up characters in my head and naming them. I loved thinking about what I would name my future children. It was quite disappointing when I was finally having children and had to come to agreement on names with their father, whose tastes were not the same as mine. I felt like I often feel when doing creative tasks in a committee; it’s hard to get to a result that doesn’t have a certain kind of blandness born of compromise.

    Having worked as an educator for many years, I sometimes feel like I’ve seen it all when it comes to names. And I’m here to tell anyone who cares: Your creative spelling of your child’s name does not make them unique or special. It just makes them cranky when someone misspells or mispronounces it, especially if that happens repeatedly.

    I love the change to Postman’s Trouser (even if it is missing the “s” on the end). It’s a perfect name.

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    • Rita, I get what you’re saying about being on a committee then watching as something interesting is transformed into blandness. I’ve no doubt your plans for naming your children were creative but I also understand why and how what happened, happened.

      I appreciate your take on the unusual spelling of names. I know why parents do it, but also figure the kid’s personality will shine through making them unique regardless of wacky spelling. BUT I keep my mouth shut on this issue.

      I don’t understand the lack of “s” on that word either. Yet it’s a good color name. 🤷‍♀️

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  64. Crazily enough, I know what the exact shade of Postman’s Trousers is!
    I’ve never understood the Pantone color of the year, but I suppose it is a ‘thing’.
    I’ll be looking forward to purchasing a signed copy (please!) of Paw and Claws sooner than later.
    I loved Tetris, but have not played this newer, more difficult version and I’ll avoid that because I’m currently having too many challenges in my life. 😉

    A dear friend of mine told my husband and I AT her daughter’s Gender Reveal party for her very first granddaughter that “she does not like the name chosen for the baby: Eleanor”. Both the Coach and I thought this was kind of funny….and my husband said flatly to our dear friend (Beth) “I’ve never liked the name Beth”.
    Then we all broke into hysterics!
    I too, take issue with weird name spellings; one does not need to hurdle over spelling their name numerous times a day to every person they encounter, for the duration of their lives.

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    • Suz, naming a color in a way that lets you know instantly what the color is makes sense to me. As for Pantone’s control of colors, so be it. I just ignore the ones I don’t like.

      Oh that’s a wonderful story. Coach’s comeback was perfect. There’s nothing wrong with Eleanor, I rather like it. And YES about the weird spelling of names. You’re burdening your child with a lifetime of explaining how to spell the name, but I know parents like the weird spellings so… there you go. 🤷‍♀️

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  66. I goof off by reading fiction. Lots & lots & lots of fiction. It’s goofing off as it has no purpose other than to entertain me. Speaking of which, Mr Boddington’s site is a marvel – thank you 🙂 I believe that the naming of colours is a particular skill and, sadly, not one that I have. Therefore I believe that those of you who do, really must do so 🙂

    The mere existence of AI does make me mutter. That said, I tried that name your book generator, and I’m pretty impressed by the options it suggested… which is decidedly annoying.

    The only time I expressed a strong opinion is when my mother insisted my unborn child be called Joshua. Then I slept on it and thought, actually… maybe. But then she was born, and so the name was never used 😉

    What have you learned today? I had a really helpful session with my coach and learned that I miss having someone to work with when things – my life especially – are in transition and upheaval. But I also like the idea of answering that question on the daily.

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    • Deb, I’ve never thought of reading as a way of goofing off, but you’re right. It is entirely for entertainment. Mr. Boddington’s site is a good one. I’m glad you like it.

      I know how you feel about some of the AI suggestions. The pen name one gave me many possibilities, all better than any I could dream up. 🤨

      Oddly enough I knew a girl whose youngest sister was named Joshua. Their father liked the name so she got it. It suited her, she was outgoing and a little tomboyish.

      Interesting answer to the question. I can understand how it could be beneficial to work with someone when you are in transition. Perhaps the person would keep you grounded and focused. Makes sense.

      I ask myself the question every night, sometimes my answers are mundane, other times profound.

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  67. So much to love in one post…starting with this:
    …”this free little online game is impossible to win and I resent this…”
    I think you really mean it…and…
    “that’s no bullshit…”
    I like Poker Face, too. Call me Natasha.
    😜🥰😜

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  68. Well, between AI and exclamation marks, I’m not sure which I dislike more. Actually, that’s not true. I dislike AI enough that I changed the tagline on The Task at Hand to “Powered by Human Intelligence.” And a couple of years ago I gave up exclamation marks for Lent. Never mind “Old Man Yells at Clouds.” I’m “Old Woman Yells at…” Well, something.

    But it’s your mention of Tetris that I love, because I finally can share my tidbit of knowledge about it with someone who might care. I never played the game until about two years ago, and this is how it happened. I became aware of a wonderful musical group called the Angel City Chorale. They’re based in Los Angeles, and do everything from pop music covers to a LOT of music from film and video games. One day, I was listening to their version of Korobeiniki, the famous Russian folk song, when I noticed something odd behind the group. It turned out to be a huge Tetris game. That’s when I learned that the fellow who developed Tetris specifically chose that as background music. At that point, I found an online version, gave it a whirl to check out the music — which is the Russian folk song — and discovered it was great fun. So, at about 75 years of age, I finally played my very first video game! (!!!!!!!!!)

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    • Linda, I’ve never met a person who gave up a particular punctuation mark for Lent, but leave it to you to do that. Makes me smile as does your revised tagline which is perfect. But sad that it’s necessary.

      I didn’t know any of the story behind Tetris. I initially played it because it was cool at the time [still is] but never thought to learn about its origins. Thanks for the information. I’m glad you found the game and enjoy it now. I haven’t played in so long, might need to revisit it.

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  69. I’ve always wanted to be the person who names colours of paints. There’s actually a website where you can name any colour in the RGB/web space. I don’t really understand the utility behind it–it doesn’t seem permanent or anything. But it’s fun on some level. It’s at colornames.org .

    As far as the name thing–lots of old people names are making a comeback (except Bertha and Ethel; I don’t think they’ll EVER come back). I have a great-niece and -nephew named Millie and Everett. I feel like they got those names from a nursing home roll call. But hey, I don’t get a vote or a say, and it doesn’t make a bit of difference how I feel about them. The names you listed aren’t all that bad. My son and daughter-in-law have Charlotte as their top name if they have a girl the next time around because they are huge Jane Eyre fans.

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  70. nance, I’ve never heard of that site but will go try it. For snorts and giggles, of course.

    Yes, we can hope that Bertha and Ethel don’t come back into fashion. I’d add Jedediah, a name that is older than time. Laughing about your nursing home roll call— yep. I like Charlotte. It bridges the gap between old-fashioned and modern, sounding appropriate wherever you find it.

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  71. That’s quite a lot of sharing! I’m of an age I can’t remember things more than a moment so I’ve already forgotten what I was going to comment for most of it…except I don’t think I ever played Tetris (or maybe I have and just forgot that too)… and I like the thing about asking what you’ve learned today. though that could be a double edged sword. I learned yesterday I might become diagnosed with a not great thing, but it’s so early in the process maybe it won’t go that way. So I haven’t told anyone…but I sort of need to…so I’m sort of telling you. Kind of anyway.

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    • Dawn, I understand about forgetting what you were going to say. I do that, too. I find myself asking myself: now what was I thinking about…? Often there is no answer

      I’m sorry to read about your possible not too great thing and totally get why you don’t want to tell anyone until you know for sure it is a not too great thing. I’m sorry this is happening to you, but am also sure you’ll do the right thing when you decide to talk about it.

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  72. Have you ever played Tetris? Have you watched Poker Face? How do you goof off in your free time?

    I love Tetris and used to play all the time! The only Poker Face I’m familiar with is Lady Gaga’s. Goof-offs for me? The NYT suite of games and Words With Friends. I’ve been playing the latter for something like 15 years now…against some of my original opponents even.

    Do you believe, like I do, that the naming of colors is a career you were meant for but never found?

    Nope; my true passion is scratching posts.

    Does the mere existence of AI make you mutter and start to get twitchy?

    It did, but I’ve come around a bit lately. It did help me come up with a few ideas for a sequel to NTFK.

    Thinking about children’s names, have you ever disliked a child’s name so much that you voiced an opinion about it? How did that work out for ‘ya?

    Not out loud, ha. I’d prefer to keep all my male anatomy, thank you.

    What have you learned today?

    A “turophile” is a connoisseur of cheese, thanks to one of my blogging friends!

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    • Mark, I never got into Words With Friends and wonder if I missed out on something. You’re on an impressive streak.

      I know you’re not alone about rethinking your opinion of AI. A few other people have said the same. If it works for you then good for you. As for me… it creeps me out.

      Yes, like you, I may have opinions about names, the weird spelling of which, but I say nothing. Nada. Nary a peep or eye roll.

      Your newly learned fact is interesting and I thank you for sharing it here. I may not remember it for long but I’ll bask in the knowledge that at one time I knew the official word for ‘cheese connoisseur’!

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  74. I’ve never played Tetris. I do love colour names. I always admired the creativity of names that were posted on nail polish bottles back in the ‘80s when I did my nails frequently. I love the new name for Classic Blue. Here’s to exclamation marks!!!

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    • Alegria, no Tetris, eh? I don’t know how I got onto it back in the day, but it was [is?] fun. I remember some great names on nail polishes, too. I’m glad you’re on Team Exclamation Point. YAY!!!

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  76. Dang it Ally!! I was a tetris gal so of course I clicked the chicken link and there went 30 minutes of my day and I’D BE LYING if I said I closed the window. Still, frustrating or not, the chickens are fun. 🤣🤣

    I don’t get twitchy about AI but that’s because I steadfastly avoid it. The few times I’ve interacted the whole thing was unsettling so I’ve stuck my head in the sand AI-wise. I know I’ve got to come up with a better plan.

    I’d love to name colors but seeing as “names you feel absolutely ridiculous saying” is my top priority I doubt anyone wants me on that duty.

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    • Laura, the chicken game is impossible to win. It seems doable, though. I try again every few days, but eventually I’ll give up.

      AI is around us more than I suspect I realize. I won’t use it, but when I see a new blogger now I wonder about what I’m reading. Is it real or is it Memorex, as the commercial asked.

      I bet you could come up with some amazing names. Your approach sounds… innovative. 😉

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  77. I just wrote a really nice answer but WP said, “sorry couldn’t be posted.” Is it what I said/wrote? I just learned a new something – copy the comment before hitting the button. One of the things I mentioned is Pantone color names. The sky above me now would be called “baby-blanket-soft” and the dough of the chocolate cookies I’m baking is “flattery beige.” Let’s see if this is accepted. Fun post!

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    • Pam, I’m sorry WP ate your comment. It does that to me sometimes and I have yet to figure why I’m not allowed through. Your first comment didn’t go to spam so that’s good. Thanks for trying a second time. What you learned is a lesson for us all.

      I like the names of your colors and instantly know what they look like. You have a gift for this kind of thing.

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